Q: how far should a 13 yr old go?

A: this is my opinion btw im 13 aswell if you and him both want the same thing you share the moment, but if he wants it don't let him pressure you and vis versa(u want it don't pressure him) I have gone as far a a wank with a boii and he has fingerd me and we snoged and kissed and so on, we have never had sex because his mum conceved him at 14 and he does not want me to be preggers at the same age, I can wait because I love him, also 13 is a very unstable age, say you did get preggers he could leave you, your perants could kick you out, you will loose out on education-GOOD THING wrong- yOU DO NOT WANT TO RAISE A KID AND YOU OF OF CHILD BEENNEFITS.you will end up prbs workin in mcdonalds lol

A: the only thing boys ur age are thinking is ways to get into ur pants (Sex)

A: well im 13 and my boyfriend is 10 years older then me and you guys are going to say that he doesnt love me he only wants one thing its not completely true he has fingered me and ate me out and asked me to give him head which I did but hes different anywho he did want to have sex which we sorta did except it hurt when he was trying so I made him stop it hurts so much so dont do anything im sure as hell not going to tryh it again it hurts so bad especially with someone older causse were young our bodies dont fit a size his age xo be careful and if you do use protection we got caught in the m,oment and almost gotme preggers

A: a little bit of kissing is good just for now. im almost 15 & havent done anything more really. your to young to do anything & you dont want to get a bad reputation. if your with someone and they want you 2 do more , and your not ready.. they obviously only want one thing from you. have respect for yourself & your body girl! goodluck chick.x

A: When your 13 you should be thinking about a relation ship with a boy/girl. im 14 and I lost my virginity at 14 it was the worst experence ever but I still moved on to having sex with another boy just like what shortygrl sed dont let no one to pressure you to do what you don't wanna do. & also at yur age you might thinking about having sex. the most you can do is get fingered or get eatten out. I hope I helped :D

A: How far do I think a 13 year old should go as far as sex is concerned? How about a cute peck goodnight? Why on earth would you want to go any further? Oh, I know, you want to make the guy happy eh? So, if you 'love' a guy, you do whatever to make him happy, regardless of your age? WRONG! so WRONG! Sex is far more than the physical stuff. There is the emotion that comes with it and regardless of how 'mature' you think you are at 13, you are NOT emotionally mature enough to get involved in sex and the stress and baggage that this can often bring with it. Guys will say they love you and will dance like a puppet with a feather up their butt just to get between your legs. Wait until you are emotionally mature and you find a guy you really love and more importantly, one who loves and respects you for who you are and not one that goes running to his buddies about what sort of sordid sexual act he has persuaded to to participate in. If you don't want to listen to my advice, listen to others on this thread. You don't have to get involed in sex just because your friends may be doing it. Having sex with different guys is not like collecting stamps. Dont go and ruin your life and possibly get a reputation for being a slut. You are worth much more than this. It is your body, respect it. Dont just give it up to make some guy happy. Regards Kiasu

A: ok so I am 13 and I have been fingered so I guess that's as far as you SHOULD go. but thats my opinion. and whn you say we aren't in serious enough relationships...youare wrong. people can be ask mature as they let them selves be.and be as in love as they can get. most 13 year olds ARE craZY and foolish and I admit I am pretty crazy too, but we can do what ever we want. it shudnt matter on how young I am. you choose what you do. no one else can choose for you. there are things you should do and things that should be waited on but it really doesnt matter if you do them or not. it's not a law to not have sex before marriage right? its something a lotof people frown on. but people do it anyways.

A: I personally dont think 13yr olds shud be having sex or doing any of that stuff. I am 16 1/2 still a virgin altho I have done other stuff but only since I was about 16 only 3 of my close friends have had sex and all with bfs and 2 of them were only in the last few months after being with the boy for over a year each, the other one did it when she was 14 after being with the boy for 2 weeks however they were then together for 6 months but she says now that she regrets it. and I have another friend who hasnt had sex but has done LOTS with a lot since her first major boyfriend when she was 14 children, because thats what we all are really, are thinking they are grwon up too soon, I feel like I am ded old fashioned however it wasnt that long ago when 13yr olds still played with dolls and people didnt lose their V until they were 18 or older and that was "normal". Also I can already see the differance in society in just the last few years. I have just finished yr 11 and I can remember most of our yr group when we came in yr7 we were still really "young which is rite seen as you are only 11". I didnt start wearing makeup properly and well until yr10! and now I can see yr7,yr8, yr9s with peroxide hair and orange faces, you're all growing up too soon. I have a little sister who is only 6 but I cant imagine her being so grown up so soon, it wud break my heart, it alredi annoys me that she asks for make up for her bday and for xmas! She is guna be a real stunner so she wont need make up anyway and im guna make sure she doesnt grow up too soon so I dont think you shud be doing anything. and if 13 yr olds do commit to sexual acts at least be in a "serious" relationship not just your at a party

A: mmm.. 13.. damn... I don't know I woul say tonge kiss...I dont think its any smart to have intercourse or anythin like that at 13...