Am I a bad person?

my boyfriend and I have been together and lived together for 4 years he's an emt and he doesn't like his job. my boyfriends dad wants him to come live with him about 3 hours away , so that he can go to college without bills and just worry about school. and that leaves me to move back to my parents with 5 other people living there and none of us get along I haven't tlked to my mom in about a year because of problems. and if I move there thats another hour away from him. so I have been tring to get him to stay and marry me and we save and pay for school together. I have been upset with him and kinda pushing him away so that it won't hurt so bad when he leaves. does that make me a bad person for wanting him to stay and settle down with me?

No of course not, he should be settling down with you... he shouldnt be living with his parents and leaving you...with no wher to go but with your parents when you have problems with them I know how that feels I can not wait to move out... and when I do I never wannna look back and if I had to I'd go crazy... but you should have a big talk with him and tell him how you feel and how you do not want to go back there again.. and how you dont want to be far away from him.

Of course you would want him to stay with you, BUT it really isn't right for you to try to hold him back. Living with his family and making school easier can make it better for you in the long run. Maybe he could ask his family if you could come with him since you are so close. You never know they might just say yes.