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Asked by fau about 1 month ago, 7 answers.

My mom married this guy who creeps me out sometimes when im sleep he careeses my hand he grabs and rubs up and down my legs, I don't know know what hes doing but I want him to stop. But im too scared to say any thing

Answered by kevin22 on Oct 14, 2009, 11:20AM
23 answers

tell your mom and if she say dont worrie about it then I wouldnt but he could be doing on acciedent like in a loving way so if it really bother you tell him

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Answered by ichibanarky on Oct 14, 2009, 11:22AM
9058 answers

That's not appropriate behaviour for a man who is in a father-head position.

How is your relationship with your mother? Can you talk to her about this?
If not, talk to another family member you trust and have them help you through...you don't have to put up with this.

Answered by fau on Oct 14, 2009, 11:39AM

According to your profile you are 19.

Have a talk with your step-dad and let him know that in no way will his behavior be tolerated.

Tell your mother.

If it happens after that, even once, immediately scream your most blood curdling scream, mace or pepper spray him thoroughly, call 911 to report a rape, tell the officers, *yes, you'll press charges*, and then follow up through the court process.

If you have minor siblings, provide them with this same advice except omit the talk with dad part.

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Answered by fau on Oct 14, 2009, 11:50AM

You need to talk to your mom about that! She would most definately want to know that her man is a pervert!!!1

Answered by funadvice on Oct 14, 2009, 12:30PM
53985 answers

This so easy to answer it hurts. Either report it to the police, or tell your school teacher or counselor about it. Others will tell you to tell your mother, but I believe if you trusted her her, you would have already done that. So report it!THere is absolutely NO Good reason for him to be doing that. He is a sex offender, and is dangerous to you. Get it stopped right away, or you could be really sorry later on. Yes, your mother will be upset with you, but that is her fault that she hasn't conducted herself so that you trust her reaction. Good Lluck! Don

Answered by crystal468 on Oct 14, 2009, 10:36PM
171 answers

You know it doesnt feel right, and you know you need to say something. Its a big red flag, and you need to protect any other kids he could potentially touch innapropriately down the road. Its normal to feel scared in this situation, but should it stop you from doing the right thing to protect yourself and others? NO!! Talk to y