Moving out issues with boyfriend and family

okay so I got a problem-o..

im 17 and my boyfriend wants me to
move out with him and start a life on our
own when he comes back from the marines which is
in a couple of months but thing is..he's leavin again..
so yea..we wont be together all the time..but hes asked me to marry him
and what not...but see my parents hate him and cant stand me being with him
to top it off me and my mother are always fighting and arguing,
she insults me, puts me down, treats me like sh*t, my dad
rubs in my past mistakes in my face..they both make me feel
like im not good enough, but its something that you cannot even imagine! like
I dont even want to put on here what they tell me because its humilating and honestly..I dont think I deserve such insults.I know I've made mistakes but I've showed im sorry and I deserve to be forgiven like the times I've forgiven them for how they've hurt me and its then when I REALLY feel that I want to move out, because im tired of all this *B.S.*,
start off new with someone that loves me..and it pisses my boyfriend off
knowing all this because he says hes so far away and not able to do anything
about it..and it frustrates him..he hates how my parents treat me...and have treated
him..and seeing me cry my eyes out after an arguemnt with them
but once all the drama calms down its okay and I dont
feel like I did at the moment or days after it..but my boyfriend still has all that in mind
and he's mad at me bc I want to stay till im finished wit college which will be in a
year and a half..he said that he doesnt care that he loves me and he will wait..
but I hate him being upset with all this drama..
we've been together for over 2 years now..I love him and he loves me..
we're trying to make it thru..but he doesnt understand that im not 100% ready to leave my house RIGHT NOW...

I've explained it to him many times..
I want to finish school
and that im not too ready for it..
I WANT TO DO IT..but NOT RIGHT now..
more when the time comes..to not rush into things
then he says..
is it an education for what your stayin for?
because I can give you all that and more hunny.
so yea I don't know what to tell him..

anyone know what I should do or
tell him, like what other ways?

ps. he is very hard headed from time to time
and gets frustrated easily when it deals with that.

thnx for your patience
and advice in advance.

wit luv,
belle

It's a hard situation. You have told your boyfriend that you are not ready to move out, and although it upsets him, he should respect your wishes.
If your not ready, your not ready. I wouldn't move out until you 100 pecent want to. Especially at 17. Your boyfriend is in the marines, that means he will be gone a lot. You would be in an empty apartment by youself, paying the bills, buying groceries, cleaning, cooking, doing everything on your own, all why trying to go to school and focus on that. It's just not the right time.
As for your parents, the best thing you can do is try and not argue with them. If they start, just nod your head or walk away. Dont sit there and yell back, it only makes things worse. I know it's hard to do, but try and avoid the conflict.

Wow, thats tough.. lol. I know how it feels to have your parents put you down about past mistakes. You just want them to let it go! But they won't, they tell all their and your friends and yea it does your head in :@ You said urself your not 100% ready to move just yet, so wait a couple of months. if he really loves you he will wait them months (which im sure he does). So just get the most stressful part of college over and then think about moving, because moving is stressful, as well as college, you don't want to over do it! probably wasn't very helpful.. sorry lol x

You're right - you should complete school - not that long to go, plus he'll be gone for much of that time anyway - there is no need to rush - if it's real, he'll be there - he should support...I wish you every happiness !!

ANYONE ELSE THAT CAN HELP ME??

**and those who have, I appreciate it deeply!