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A older guy i just met, what to do next?

Asked by qtpi3 4 months ago, 6 answers.

OK this is gonna be very long and im really sorry but here it goes I met this guy when I went to my best friends house but he is alil older then me we chld and talkd all night... well when I left I got his number and we have been talkn ever since he...

calls me his babygurl and all that well im not the kinda girl to rush or to fall very easly for a guy but with him its so freakn easy he feels the same with me but our relationship is forbiden well one day I woke up and he said he had to talk to me bout sumthin well he stard talkn to another girl I get it hes a guy he cant just wait for me to get of age and he did tel me that if he didnt care for me then he wldnt have told me... but well I told him I understood when I really didnt but im his friend im gonna be there for him well now hes always tellin me how much he cares for me and he always calls me his babygurl and one day well be together and honestly I have never in my life belive anyone that much bout careing for me but him so what im trying to get at is what should I do about him be there and support him because doing that I notice he gets more into me ugh I don't know really how to put my question how bout this what should I do? thanks so much for any advice at all much love xoxox

by the way but I don't know if I put this up I dont normal want to date oldder guys but hes a lot older then me and it would take a year to be with him because I don't want him to go to jail if someone found out bout him... he says to me if I was of age I wld be his first pick for his girl

Answered by rockitout09 on Jul 16, 2009, 10:58AM
23 answers

sissy look at me baby. thats a prob there and we both know it k. just do like I've been telling you all along. follow YOUR heart and do what you think would be best for you. trust me I've been jail bait plenty of times. you just have to follow your heart and hope its the right path for you. we did sissy now hes talkin bout gettin married.

love ya sissy!!!

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Answered by sexyhelp on Jul 14, 2009, 04:26PM
29 answers

how much is the difrence?
both ages.?

Answered by jackie45 on Jul 14, 2009, 04:29PM
50 answers

well...I see that you really like him and all...but you never supposed to wait on a guy NEVER..! that just makes it seem like your desperate for him...!I think you should move on..you know he's seeing other girls and stuff like that so why wait on him..if he really cares about you he wouldnt do it in the first place..and no matter what your age is he still supposed to b by your side.. so that ust lets me know that he's trying to wait till your 18 and maybee get into ya pants..thats what im guesisng. ii dated older guys im 16 and I dated boy 18 and 19..and they never said anything like that to me..!so just let me know what happenes...!

Answered by stiphybabi on Jul 14, 2009, 04:40PM
173 answers

every1 hes a bad age k im 16 and he is 23 ik vary bad

Answered by jackie45 on Jul 14, 2009, 04:43PM
50 answers

thats not bad lol..!well iim used to that but...

Answered by stiphybabi on Jul 14, 2009, 04:45PM
173 answers

yeah yall are rite... hes way to old for me I should just give up but stil be his best friend... if sum time down the road we meet again then ik sumthin was post to happn