Why is it so hard to find a good girl?

Why is it so Hard to find a good girl? Why is it gotta be so hard to find a girl thats not a complete waste of time. Who aint going to lead ya on, or cheat on ya, or use ya. Whats wrong with this? Is there something wrong with me? or just the women around me?

Well I heard that guys always fall for the outgoing ones that talk a lot, and are always flirting, and doin crazy stuff, WHEN the good girls are always quite and doin her job, and just cares about living life peacefully...lol I guess!! I don't know! Or shes the one who you at least expect would be...You ever heard that??

There's plenty of good girls around, just need to look in the right places. There's no harm in testing the waters, so to speak. You're going to find girls that aren't worth it, they're everywhere too, it's just a matter of looking hard enough for the right ones. Good luck! Hope you find someone amazing..

well I dated a guy that I really loved for over a year. When he met me he knew I was a people person. Not flirty, just outspoken and customer service friendly if you will.
Then months after we started dating he told me he didnt want me to have friends, and that I shouldnt go out anymore. I wasnt aloud to talk to the men that we work with because it was disrespectful to him. Basically he wanted a mute and for me to be shut off from society.
I was like whatever, Im me, and either love me for who I am rather than hate me for someone Im not, or move on, and leave me the hell alone. Its your choice.

awww im sure you'll find someone, I thought the exact same thing about guys because every boyfriend I had either led me on cheated on me or used me, seriously !!! it sucks dont it !!! but dont worry you'll find someone, I've been with my boyfriend now for almost 10months and hes never done nothing to hurt me!!
little tip for ya btw,,,the shy/quiet ones are normally the ones who are more kinky and stuff in the bedroom haha!!!
good luck hunny!!

alrite im going tell you the turth a lot of girls are b*tches and if they cheat on you then your way 2 good for them...you'll find...trust me <3

My advise is to just find a good man!!

You're probably looking in the wrong places. While there are obvious exceptions, if you pick up a girl at a club, chances are she is in to cars, money, materialistic stuff ya know. I mean, have you seen the idiot guys who go to clubs, pulling up in suits and sunglasses with their souped up Saturns? They're retarded. So why would you want a girl who is looking for retarded guys?

Try to meet a girl where intelligent, understanding and compassionate girls are MORE LIKELY TO HANG OUT. The library, maybe? Take an art class? Take up a co-ed sport (like martial arts)?

Not saying this will work for sure, but you're bound to meet more multi-dimensional girls than you would at a club or a bar.

Funny thing is I do take martial arts. I take shaolin-do. Yeah I'll look into some libraries and art class would be nice to take. Yeah thanks for the help