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will I get my scholarship taken away
long story short my girlfriend is five weeks pregnant and just told me about it ,shes keeping it main problem I have is
I got into USNA (Annapolis) from football will the college take away my scholarship for fathering a child or will they allow me to play
and she mentioned that we should get married ,I am not marrying her and I have no intention of marrying her at this point in my life is it a scumbag move some one help I got my balls in a vice
alright..tis your choice..if you want your college and everything..then you have a really chat with you girl..tell her the truth..tell her open front that you and her are not ready for this..that you did not want to bring this child into this world..where noting is set up for them yet.. make sure your firm about that but also carring about it… then talk about options.. also remind her about her furture tell her..that she need to make a carer for her self first.. anyway then chat to her about options. abortion or wait for adoption . my advice..is the abortion..you are nto ready..yet..you cant not put this stress on you 2 or your parents..you haev to make your carer first..so you have the money and everything..
look I have big future a head of me I just wanted to know if my scholorship would be taken away
thanks for your help guys
no its not. you should definetly be a part of the childs life finacially. its cost a lot of money. and you should atleast mail them a card or something on there birthday.
Excuse me?..what do you mean is that an asshole thing to do?.. not be apart of your child’s life?… you do realized you helped father the child?…so you should step up to the plate and be a man.. it may suck now..but what will suck even more is missing out on your child’s prime moments in life.. you have to account for your actions, whether you like it or not.. anyways, just think.. how would you feel if your mom or dad did not want a part in your life, or even if they wanted a small role?.. is a small role enough to even sustain the presence of a real father?.. think about it..good luck.. I hope everything works out..good luck.. xx. superfresh.
that could work thank you very much
your right its both of your guys fault. what you should do is go to college and support her. see the kid every once in a while like once or twice a month. or go to court and get partial “ownership” of the child. Maybe she can get him/her during the school year and you can get the child half of the summer. Also try to live close to her if possible move in with her. tell her that you want to be able to see your child and her. but you can tell her that you dont want to get married.
well think about it. you can stay with her and take care of the child finish highschool go to a colledge that does allow you to have a child and have a probably promising future. the next/best option is to tell her your not ready to have a kid but do give her money every month to help take care of the child and visit him/her maybe 4 or 5 time a year. another is a complete jackass move but completely leave her. scoot her out of your life and move on. last you could say screw colledge you can be a stay at home dad. thats probably not a good choice. You should go to the colledge but atleast try to be in the kids life. send them cards on there birthdays and halp pay for there colledge and help with money situations. just try not to completely screw her by leaving. this is partly your fault.
thank you
but when I signed my national letter of intent their guidlines stated that I can not be married before or during my four years in the school or have fathered any children but I thinking their is a loophole cause I signed like two months ago and shes pregnant now so can they kick me out
your welcome I hope everything works out and in the end if the child does find you tell him the truth. you were 17 scared and had a whole future career ahead of you.
what if I dont want to be apart of the childs life
I am not going to be a dick and leave her out in the cold with the kid to fend for herself but I dont want to be apart of its life anyway other then financially is that asshole to do
its not completely my falt but I signed a leagal contract with the united states military its not like another college you can blow off if you get a better offer they are going to hold me to the contract I can’t leave her thats not very classy
I doubt they would take away your scholarship for having a kid. What matters with scholarships is your grades not children. If you don’t want to marry her, you don’t have to. It’s not scum baggie to me at all. Work on continuing your education and getting a good job so that you can provide for your child in the future.
thats why you dont write a return adress. or maybe call the mom and tell her to tell the child your dad says hi
no cause then they go looking for you years down the road and I don’t want that to interfere with a real family I may have some day
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