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Why wont he talk to me !?

Me and my ex went out for 3 days. Before we barely knew each other, but we seemed like the best of friends. It was kinda awkward, between those 3 days. We were better off as friends. I broke up with him through myspace, because my phone broke and his charger popped. I had told him that I felt awkward, and that I dont really want a boyfriend anymore. He said that he felt the same way. Like 3 days later, we compelety stopped talkinq. Its been 2 months, but I’ve been recently thinkinq why doesnt he want to talk to me?

Then I sent him an im like a week ago, askinq what his problem was with me. He doesnt go on msn as much, so I waited, I forgot tho. One night I had a dream, that we saw each other at soome beach, and we made up, and went to the carnival, and made out. Lol..when I woke up that morninq, I went on msn and he was on he said that he didnt have a problem with me, and that he just hasnt been talkinq to people as much, when he has pictures of him and his friends from recent times, and his mood later that night was text me..im out. So I think he’s lieinq.

What would be reasons that he wont talk to me??

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Answer #1

Well, I think that hes hurt inside. Even though he doesnt show it he might feel rejected. When you broke up with him you said he felt the same way, he’s probably hiding the fact that hes hurt because he doesnt know how to express his feelings to you. maybe thats also why he’s avoiding you.

Answer #2

maybe her just doesnt want to deal with you? or he just doesnt want to be friends for any reason?

Answer #3

well personally I think he still liked you and I think deep down you might feel like he does 2 based on the making owt in your dream and he juss said he feels the same way so he wouldnt look dumb I mean you kinda did break up with him over a txt but I don’t know

Answer #4

I agree with englishman as far as the top paragraph goes give him a break id respond the same way if I really liked you and you broke my heart and id probaly get permanently angry

Answer #5

When people break up, it’s always hard to stay friends. He may have said that he felt the same (not wanting a relationship) but that may not have been true - he may have liked you and felt hurt by the breakup.

Also, dumping someone over the internet (or even the phone) is a bad form (that’s an English phrase for not good). Ask him to be absolutly honest with you and tell you if he wants to stay friends - make it clear that you’d prefer to be hurt by the truth than lied to (believe me, it’s better in the long run). Then you will know one way or another…

Answer #6

hes not feelin you nomore..you consider that an ex for only 3days…wellz I think he just probably dont want to talk to you because he doesnt want anything to do with you, not even as friends..or he can be talking to someone else and wanna be faithful to her.

Answer #7

He might not be over your break up and he feels awkward talking 2 his ex no affense

Answer #8

he could still like you and he only said he felt he sae way cus he was imbarassed

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