How can i tell if he's playing me?

ok so I like this guy he wants do other things like kiss me but he keeps saying he not sure if wants date me just be friends he says he needs time how can I tell if he just playing me long or he does need time were he been hurt before could someone...

please give me some advice he a nice guy but I am about to give him piece my mind soon if I dont get some answer how much time enough time for him no what he wants before I just had enough an leave he says he does care about me lot to..

He will say anything YOU want to hear, if he can get what he wants from you. Any guy who just wants you for sexual purposes, without a commitment, is a player! Tell him your not a boy toy, and you dont want to be his friend with benefits either. This excuse so many guys use that they just dont want to get into another relationship because theyve been hurt in the past. Thats fine, but then they dont need to prey on some lonely girl, just to satisfy their needs! He is only using you. He doesnt care about you like he says, because if he did, he would respect you, and not take advantage of you! Friends DONT kiss, or do other things!! Dont fall for anything he says. If he wants to just be friends..then tell him, hands off!!

i think you need to tell him straight look i need to know what you want from me because i'm sick of being messed about so if i do't have a straight answer i'm going to move on.just say that and see what his replie is.goodluck.

Um straight up player. He's playing you, once he has you in his bed one time he'll be done with you. He hasn't had s^x in a while and is more than likely wanting to be with you in that way and then never again. Please stay away from this creep. This situation can get really scary. Take my advice hon, say your goodbyes and depart. There are better fish in the sea. This one is a shark. Maintain abstinance until your honestly ready and have been with a man you know you'll want to marry some day.

1. He is hot and cold in the relationship. One minute he is professing his love and attraction to you, and the next minute he's no where to be found.

2. He does not answer your phone calls, emails, or texts within a 24-hour period.

3. He will only see you on certain days of the week and will NEVER deviate from those days.

4. He will only call you during certain times and will never deviate from those times.

5. He will never introduce you to his family or friends.

6. He will not openly share his emotions with you.

7. He is very vague about past relationships.

8. He tells you that he's always busy with work, school, or other activities that allegedly take him away from you.

9. He looks very uncomfortable when he is seen with you in public. I believe that men who play games are fearful that you will run one of their ex's, or worse yet, a woman OR women that he is currently seeing/sexing.

10. Your gut tells you that you are being played. I have learned from experience to trust your instincts.