Why is it odd I am still good friends with my ex g/f?

err don’t like the new system for asking questions on here…

anyways..

So this girl I dated for over 3 years, we are still good friends and even roommates. I know it a little odd, but everyone I talk to is like WFT? your still friends? roommates?? how the hell does that work.

I will admit it was very awkward for the first 2 months or so, but we have gotten used to it. I don’t really think its all the strange.

So is it really that weird that we are still good friends and roommates?

Answer #1

LMFAO!!! well HELL YEA THATS TYPE WEIRD TO MANY BUT I FIND IT TO BE NORMAL LMFAO.I DONT UNDERSTAND why people FIND IT WIERD TO STILL COERSE WITH AN EX.I PERSONALLY THINK ITS HEALTHY BUT people FIND IT WIERD CAUSE IF you GET WITH SOMEONE NEW IT MIGHT BE AND ISSUSE AND PLUS MANY FIND IT NORMAL TO HATE EACHOTHER AFTER A BRAKEUP.I FIND IT CHILDISH BUT THATS WHY I DONT FIND IT STRANGE BUT THATS JUST ME MANY WILL THOUGH^^

Answer #2

WFT? What, for Taft?

There’s a pretty sharp line dividing people about this issue. Some people think it’s odd to remain friends with exes because they feel there will always be an underlying current of ‘more than friends’ intimacy underlying the friendship which could rear up at unexpected times. Other people, like yourself and myself, find it rather ridiculous to throw away years of bonding and intellectual/emotional intimacy just because you aren’t in love anymore.

I dated a girl for five years and have maintained a friendship with her for another five. She’s truly my best friend, and anyone I meet who has a problem with it doesn’t remain a part of my life very long. Fortunately, my current girlfriend loves her as well, so I hope you have as good of luck with your next significant other as I.

Answer #3

lol well glad to see someone else has the same opinion I do.

Yah my ex is like my best friend now, and I have to say I do feel she is almost more than a friend. I mean nothing intimate happens between us, but I will always care about her differently than the rest of my friends.

he he yah my current g/f is friends with my ex, and that is actually how we met :P. Sat around the other night playing guitar hero with my ex and my current g/f. told that to one of my friends and he just looked at me like ‘ WFT? … I can’t stand any of my ex’s ‘

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