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Why is he so fascinated with my breasts?

MY BRESTS?! like my boyfriend is obsessed with them. like I dont get it. he cant control himself. llike when we makeout. thats all he wants to touch. or even if we’re NOT making out or h*rny he still cant keep himself from just randomly wanting to grab em. -_- blllaaah! its not that I 100% mind it. I like it to an extent.. but im like theres more to me than my chest. or I guess im like what the hell is so great about them. I dont understand..so fellas or ladies who swing that way can you please explain to me whats the big deal bout em or why do get such a rush feeling up on em and stuff.

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Answer #1

Well, first of all, he’s a guy. That should explain it right there… lol. Anyway… My husband is the same way. It doesn’t stop once you get married. But, there’s a difference because your not married. So~ if you tell him to stop and he refuses, then you need to do something about it. Sit him down and explain to him how it makes you feel when that happens. You can tell him that you don’t mind it sometimes, but when you tell him to stop, then he needs to. Hope that helps any?

Answer #2

Ok, well first off it is breasts, lol.. and also.. different guys are attracted to different things, and apparently this is his fix right here… boobs, so if you do not like it, or only to an extent, dont tell us.. tell him, and let him know how you feel, anyways, good luck. :]

Answer #3

You have to be very strict with your boundaries. Your body is yours, and just because you’re in a relationship with your boyfriend doesn’t mean he gets to touch you whenever he wants — you have to want him to touch you too! Each time he touches you, you need to reiterate that you don’t want to be touched right then, and then explain why — this is the important part so he really hears you.

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