Why do men 21 or older date girls whos age 15?

Why do they do it? I think that's Sad. Why can't they find someone their age? This is some R.Kelly stuff they doing. That's like a High school kid Dating a Kindergardener! Why won't they find some their age? I know they got the car,and buy gifts for...

them.But, a 15year old!? I'm sorry but I think that's some Sad Azz Sht. What are yall Opinion?

Primarily because a young man at the age of 21 is most often caught between two worlds. One world is legally being an adult, and the other world is, that, part of their maturity is still that of an underaged child yet, and so they are still in a vulnerable position to relate to a younger girl, not realizing that they have fully passed that stage age wise.

They have not been a legal adult all that long and they have not fully realized the rules have actually changed for them along with their age. It is a very akward stage for a young man. He is too young yet for older women, and too old for younger women. His overall playing field is extremely narrow at that point and so he will quite often "revert" to where he feels the most comfortable... as a child.

In a very few short years, his entire world will change dramatically once again. Even further on down the road, the difference between his age and a woman who is six years younger won't really matter all that much. Then, as a very old man, men will usually die first. A wife much younger than the husband quite often becomes a widow. Visit a nursing home sometime and see the ratio of women to men who reside there.

If you have been hurt by such a person recently, it is usually a tramatic thing when it happens. As you get older, you'll most likely just shake your head, smile, and move on with your own life. :-)

You know what I like best about High School girls? I keep getting older, but they stay the same age.

I agree I think its nasty to be doing shyt like that. But some guys think they cant get anyone their own age so they go to a desperate teen that thinks its cool to have a older boyfriend.

sum people like that can find a younger person mre sexier im going out wth a 28 yr old im 15 years old but thts why sumtimes they go out wth younger girls cz there sevier

kirstyxx well im 16 and I know what you mean but I still dont like the fact that older guys like young girls in that way because there is plenty of women there own age that look good to even if there sxier now there still going to get old.

These guys Are major SAD

roc305 who are you talking about?

men 21 or older who dates young women age 15 @mexicano415,dude don;t you think that's SAD?

yea it is. isnt there a law for that tho?

isnt it illegal for underage girls to sleep with a guy over 18?
any girl who is smart enough to know that that is just nasty and once they get older the guy is going to want some younger looking.

well im 17 with a 20 year old and hes gunna be 21 soon. I mean age is just a number. sometimes in different situations its gross and dont make sence like a 21 year old with 13 year old or 15 thats weird. because there still lil kids. im about to be 18 so it aint that bad. like a 18 year old with a 26 year old I dont think thats wrong . because at least there of age and stuff. but 15 and 21 I think thats pushing it a bit much.

I think that there's just something about innocence that is quite attractive to us guys. Our paternal instincts( yeah right) just come into play and older men want to become a corrupter of innocence. It's just male psychology.

I sort of agree with Elvis. I think we like the innocence of younger women. I don't mean that in a sick way though. I've met too many girls my age (20) who've already slept with dozens of men, and just talk about drinking and stupid crap like that. I think it's normal to date younger women, 3,4, 5 years or whatever. Like some people say it's just a number, it depends on the person. Besides look at your parents! They'll most likely not be the same age, mine are 3 years apart. Also, I think there is a natural tendency for older men to date younger women. High schools are a prime example. If the girl expresses interest and doesn't look like a five year (or act like one) what's the problem of dating a 15 year old? It's not gross. It's natural and in the olden days it was much more frequent!