Why can't my man get hard?

OK ME AND MY MAN ARE HAVEING SEX BUT NOT AS MUCH AS WE USED TO IT WAS OK BUT WHEN WE WOULD START HE WOULD NOT GET HARD AT FIRST HE WOULD HAVE TO JACK OF OR GET HARD BY PUTTING IT IN ME AND MOVEING IT IN AND OUT IS THERE SOMETHING WRONG WIT ME I MEAN I CANT EVEN RIDE HIM WITHOUT HIM GETTING SOFT AND THAT ISA BEFORE I PUT IT IN ME I MEAN I TRY TO GIVE HIM HEAD AND HE DON'T LIKE THAT EITHER SO WHAT SHOULD I DO ABOUT THIS OR AM I JUST NOT GOOD I MEAN WIT MY LAST GUY HE COULD NOT EVEN SIT NEXT TO ME WITHOUT GETTING HARD WHATS UP WIT THIS PICTURE

Sounds like you need your last man back!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! na but 4real maybe he has erectile dysfunction an needs like some pre-performance wipes or somethin. Look 4 something like that on the internet an b str8 up an holla at him about it. I think there's one called herculex that specialize for pple with mechanical problems L8R

Flaco

this what you do baby! turn on a light fan and face it toward the bed! you want a cool room, not cold but cool! both of yall get naked! lick his balls until the cows come home while he jacks off vigoursly! this will prepare him for demolition derby!

Try making out with him but be aggressive, you can also try dressing up in a costume or something... do some roll playing... a school girl outfit is nice... :P

Sounds like he isn't that into it. I have never really heard of a guy that doen't like getting head. Life is to short not to enjoy yourself. It sounds like you need to have a serious heart to heart with him and ask him whats up, not literally of course.