Why cant I find somebody?

My friend's tell me that everybody has somebody waiting out there for me, but I cant seem to find that special person or even anybody. It's painful to see that my friends can easily find somebody to cheerish and love, leaving me alone to sink lower and lower. I just dont know whats wrong about me?

Am I unattractive?
Am I an a*shole?
Or is something else wrong?

Please help =[
I cant go another few years like this.

Don't worry I'm the same way.
All of my friends are in love and all that. They tell me, "oh you'll find somebody and you'll be happy" and blah blah blah. but here I am still waiting and no one. I'm 18 and a half, never had a real boyfriend, never kissed a guy or anything. Wait, I think I've held hands...once. People say I'm friendly, nice, cute, whatever...buuut NOTHING! haha.
It's gotten to the point where I do think somethings wrong with me. I'm miserable, I think I'm going to end up an old lady living with cats.
But I'm still optimistic. It's killing me. lol.
Maybe you're like me waiting for them to come to you? I don't know. Go out with a single guy friend and hang out at spots where there's girls and just go talk to them. Anywhere you go, just be friendly and talk to them. You might be surprised one day. You're young right? You've got nothing to lose!
Hope I helped!
Good luck!

It just takes time, there's nothing wrong with you. Just make sure to be yourself(:

there's nothing wrong with you , I had a boyfriend for 2 years , and he dumped me last year , and I felt like I could've done something to make him stay with me , and I felt like it was all my fault , I felt everything was wrong with me , and then a few months later I realized that god didn't want him to be with me anymore and that he had someone else planned for me , they're waiting for me , some day you'll find someone who truly cares about you , I wish you the best of luck and god bless you

Last year that is what was with me. I felt like Everyone except me could just snap their fingers and find their match. I was in so much pain and it was like I was the worst person on Earth so no one would even look my way. When I least expected it I found someone and I have never been happier. I waited 16 years and found my someone. Be patient. The feeling you have with the right person is definately worth the wait. Keep your life in check and hopefully sooner rather than later you will find your match and not be able to remember your pain.
I wish you the best of luck.
and I hope you find your match.

OKAY, let me say this - fill your life up, keep busy, be happy and love who you are. People are attracted to others with passion and self-confidence. You are lovely. Some great guy will find you when you least expect it. Trust me, I am older (37)...and I know. The less you focus on it, the happier you will be and it WILL happen. Just love yourself because if you dont love yourself, then no one else will either.