Why can't i get along?

I treat people how they treat me, only ten fold. So if someone is even a little bit negative towards me, I usually end up being extremely obnoxious to them. If you show me a little kindness, I can be your best friend. how can I find balance in this world?

Just treat people nicer no mater what, nobody gets anywhere by being obnoxious if the person was only a LITTLE negative toward you. If you treat people nicer you might suprise other and yourself. Besides, I know this sounds harsh, but if you continue like that some people won't really want to be around. It's a harsh truth and I learned the hard way.

I'm going through the same thing. If people treat you a certain way they deserve the same treatment. In the adult world they'll learn to deal with it and won't give a crap. I know it's hard, but you gotta be yourself, ya know?

I feel you missaria

 
The problem you have is that you are treating people the way THEY treat you.

You will be a lot more successful in life and with developing friendships if YOU instead treat people the way YOU want to be treated.

Accordingly, you will attract more people who like you and with whom you can get along.