Why are all the cute clothes made for teeny-breasted or big women?

I mean, whenever I find something I like, such as a sexy top or dress, it fits me okay on the abdominal area, but my boobs are always either halfway pushed out or they feel like they are being cut in half inside the top. So I either have to get a size too big just to fit my boobs or not buy the item.
Also, it really annoys me when I go into a lingere store and all the cute bras are only for tiny breasted women, while women like me end up having to settle for ugly white or cream colored FULL coverage bras. And, to add insult, they even have these things called MINIMIZERS. I mean, why to over 300,000 women in America alone get breast implants every year implants if it was a bad thing to have a large chest?
I am not fat (I'm a size 7/8), but my bra size is DD36, which makes it impossible to find clothes that fit, including bathing suits.
Any opinions?

I can understand where you're coming from. I'm a 34B and that isn't big, I know, but it is when you're five feet tall and weigh only 110lbs. I wear a size 2 and finding dresses that fit is the worst because they'll look great on me until you see my top and my boobs are falling out. as for bathing suits and dresses and such, go for a halter top.

well I'm big and I can never find clothes for me . it's always small breasts and stomach or small breasts and big stomach.

I hate to say it but my best friend has the same problem. she finds cute ones at Fredricks. I'm sorry you're having such a bad time, but I'm one of those teeny brested people, except, I can NEVER find a bra my size. I'm actually a 30A and barely that A mind you. do you know how many bras they make for 30 A? none. I have to buy 32A and wear it at it's tightest and when it begins to stretch, I have to throw it away. Bra makers aren't women, they're men. That's why they assume that all women have B-D size boobs and that if you are a B you can't possibly be a 40 an if you are a D,you couldn't possibly be a 34. Men objectify women's bodies and then try to make us all look the same. it's a wonder so many women have breast implants and reductions in this society. all society is telling them is that if you aren't a C, you're the wrong size.

get them tailored its the only way to go! I have the same problem, I'm bigger than you though, size 10 with 38DDs. Just find a good tailor, and tell, him/her exactly what you want.