Why do I feel like being alone so much?

I am 15 and a half. lately I been feeling like I need to be alone all the time. I sit alone outside by the pool. I sit away from everybody. why do I feel like that? why do I do that? Is there something wrong?

Maybe you are depressed or you just need time alone. I felt like I needed time alone when I was about your age. I'm 37 now and I don't know why I felt that way before. Maybe if you have overprotective parents it is your way of getting away from that.

are you upset or mad at someone? maybe you need a boyfriend or something. But just because you feel alone does'nt mean somehting is wrong.

At 15 your body is changing eg: ragging hormones etc,and can be difficult at the best of times. being a teenager is not easy. , hang in there, if you have anyone to talk with, tell them how your feeling, bottling up and hanging out by yourself only manifests any issues you may have, in saying that everybody needs time out,every now and again to collect there thoughts but not all the time.

If someone or something is annoying you , try and look for a positive in the situation (there is always a positive) and keep smiling. You are the creator of your own happiness. Smile it makes you feel better.

Cheers

Mieca

Some folks just like solitude and some a group. some of Both is best Helps you be your self. If your not overly sad just put on some nice soft calming music or a good book and remember you need group time also to develope social skilles that will be used in the job market when you Get older Learn to enjoy the little and simple things in life watch the people around you. . . . . Most of all Learn. one day you'll find someone you want to share your time in solitude with just don't be in a hurry.

MAYBE ITS BECAUSE your SAD OR IT MAYBE BECAUSE you WANT TO GET AWAY AND BE ALONE OR MAYBE you SHOULD TALK TO SOMEONE

Don't listen to any of the other post about being depressed or sad. You are 15. At the age it is perfectly normal to need alone time, even a lot of it. Solarity is one of the best ways to help you grow up.

Haha. Don't take it the way I did.

I spend everyday by myself within my house doors. I don't even see my mum until 8pm or 9. And even then, she goes to her room and I go to mine. ..

SO I decided I was antisocial and nobody likes me. Haha.

Seriously, you're doing great. It's normal, you'll get over it and want to have sleepovers and parties with all your chum diddly chums. Don't let the chance fly out the window

People are different. Some people like a lot of alone time, others like a lot of social time. No big deal.

Being Alone, can help you a lot!! because by withdrawing yourself from society, you allow your mind to stop the constant influence of your sorroundings, forcing you to think in a pre determined way... start questioning yourself..what part of what your belief is just a reflection of someone else's habits, and what part did you figure out...is it truly like that , or it just makes you feel secure...

Take advantage of this time, to know yourself, once you grow up and engage into more social-demanding activities, you wont have this precious time to actually feel and know yourself.!

PS. the contact with others, serves as a way of measuring ourselves, of constant readjustment to the group, don't totally astray or you'll lose social contact, and that takes a lotta time to build up again..

this is from an old...-and now vegetarian- Wolf...
a stepping wolf...do you like HESSE, maybe you could explore into Damian, and find some answers, or the right questions...

Good luck on your life trip, and Don't panick...just enjoy the Ride...like surfing..

take care

Cheers

someone, who was just in the same step where you are now...

I love being alone.. I dont' think it's a problem.. I get my thoughts to my self... I guess it's just because I have always been alone.. with being homeschooled and all.. But I enjoy it.. I'm very independent now.. I'm sure your fine.. it's possibly just a phase any way.. or a way to relax and enjoy your self..

I dunno, im 13 and I sink into my music for hours or else just go to my room and lie in silence, I thought I was depressed or emo or something but I guess im not alone.

It might be a temporary mood thing if it's just been happening lately.

I've needed time alone my whole life though. It's not that I'm antisocial or that anything is wrong, I'm just introverted. Basically, introverts get drained from bright lights, loud music and talking people and need time alone to 'recharge'. Extroverts are energized by loud music, lights and people and feel unhappy when they don't have constant stimualtion. The types use different areas of their brain and it can be tested even for babies.

Everyone is on a spectrum though so you might be borderline and situations in your life or hormones are pushing you towards the introversion side. Research it a little to see if it applies to you. :D

PS: Introversion is not the same as shyness or antisocial behavior. I think people are awesome and have a lot of confidence, I just sometimes need time alone or with a pet.

hey if you feel so alone is something is going on in your head
you know maybe you got some problems in school or in your house is normal but let me tell you something just 1 thing talk to your mom or a friend or someone how you feeling insinde and tell them
why you feel so alone talk to someone and belived me there going to help you to not feel alone like right now

hey if you feel so alone is something is going on in your head
you know maybe you got some problems in school or in your house is normal but let me tell you something just 1 thing talk to your mom or a friend or someone how you feeling insinde and tell them
why you feel so alone talk to someone and belived me there going to help you to not feel alone like right now

I feel like that always I like being alone to think stuff or read I never really had anybody being a closed friend nor cousin nor mom or 'dad' nothing since little and I guess I just like it this way I sometimes get annoyed with people around me.