Is she just playing games with me?

theres this girl I really like a lot, I have never felt like this with a girl before, im happiest when im around her, she makes me want to do better in everything, im not sure if im in love with her but I think I mite be. the problem is... her past relationships were complete disaters, we started hangin around together about 4 months ago, she says she's seeing this other guy and has been for about 4-5 months now, but has no proof he exsits, she dont know his surname and none of her family know about him. anyway some of the things she does makes it look to me like she does have feelings for me e.g when were sittin on the sofa alone se would lay on me and stroke my leg or she she would lay on me on her front and bury her head in my neck and say how she could fall asleep in my arms and stuff, she also aske me to go on holiday with her (just us 2) and I said I couldnt get time off work that soon (because I had just started a new job) so I said to her ' why don't you take lee' (lee is her apparent boyfriend) her exact words to me were 'I dont want him to come'. I told her I liked her but didnt say how much because I fort it mite scare her off, but she still says she's seein this other guy. I dunno what to do because she is the first girl I have ever liked this much in my life so I don't want to give up but I don't want to seem desperate or end up looking stupid.

I just need some advice on what she mite think or weather or not she likes me or if she's just playing a game or something.

This girl COULD be making the guys up so she can get close enough to another guy so shes comfortable and is in a zane where she thinks she wont get hurt!!

But the again she could be telling the truth and just nobody knows becasue of certain things like its not serious or what ever but I would just hang off untill shes ready
and I no thats not easy becasue you cant wait forever but if you hang off and everything keeps going well then you should be well on your way to her

Its quite clear she likes you tho!!

Hope this helps!!
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Jeez, just ask her if she likes you! She's probably just making up stuff so that you'll feel jealous. If she seems happy with you, and you're happy with her, the results could be awesome.

On the other hand, if she IS making stuff up, this could be a warning sign that she is a compulsive lier or something. Be careful!

If she has had a really hard time with past relationships she could be using "Lee" as a buffer. You cant get hurt if you cant make a commitment.

If it was me I would just ask her about. Ask, not confront. You dont want to spook her since she has a history of bad relationships. The only other alternative is to just let it play out naturally and see where it goes.

It seems clear that this girl likes you A LOT. There are two possibities with respect to this other guy. One, he exists and she wants to cheat on him with you. Two, he doesn't exist and she just made him up to make you jealous.