What to do if my mom hates me?

I would just run off to somewhere that nobody can find me.

If she hits you, then I’m afraid that’s abuse… :(

Either tell your dad or another adult like a teacher or a friend’s parent.

And just so you know, you’re wrong about nobody caring… I care, and I don’t even know you! Anyway, good luck! :)

if she treatz you like that…4 get bout it. she doesnt have da rite 2 treat you that way. also if your bein abused…please get sum help because that just aint rite…may b you should live wit your dad if your life is that bad…

               *gud luck*

            stay strong!!!

your mother is probably under a lot of stress, that your probably unaware of. Try to not talk to her as much. Just answer the questions she asks you, don’t show attitude, do everything she says, do this for a few days. always say thank you and please. Clean your room without her asking u, fold your laundry, set the table, do things like that without her asking. Another thing you can do is write her an e-mail or note or talk to her in person, let her know how you feel. be honest. I’ve had problems with my mom too. She said I was never appreciative of anything she did for me. So I kept thanking her said I love her when we hung up on the phone and things like that. show her respect, show her you love her.

hey me mom is the same. look we have this filter to drink water from and I wanted a drink so what I did is filled the filtering jug up. Then I drank from it. Well then I went into the living room where me mom were sitting and then she asked me what I did so I said I had a drink of water and she said that she had no filter in it! So she got a knife out of the knife rack and nearly stabbed me with it! She said she could kill me and go to jail! and then she gave me a black eye. My mom and dad are devorced so I called up my dad and told him to pic me up and take him to his flat so he did. and we lived happily ever after… NO WE DIDNT my mom kept telling me to come back so I came back and my mom started acting really nice !!! YAY!!! But my advice is pretend you live in a rented house and you work for this woman and just pretend you hardly know her save up your pockit money so when your and adult you can moovveee iiittt!!!

hey sorry to hear that.One day I was just sitting in my bedroom watching tv and she just ecused me of stealing money.So then I said no I didnt. but that got her mad so she smacked me and scratched me until I was bleeding. that day she figured out it was my 15 year old brother. that day I went to school with three bleeding scratchs on my face . my mom sucks.Dude your not the only one.

im sorry your mom treats you like that my mom yells at me 2. I just googled this site because my mom just told me 2 pack my bags and move. my dad beats me and so does my bro. so just try and get out. go sit out on your porch if you need 2, just get away for a bit. and if things dont get better… NEVER BACK DOWN!!! GOOD LUCK! =)

hey! I just googled this site because im having the same problem today. my mom just hit me for doing absolutely nothing ): so you should just wait until she cools off and then just be SUPER nice. don’t talk back or anything. I no its excruciatingly difficult, but you have to do it. Or, if you just aren’t going to put up with her sht anymore, talk to her. if she yell, yell back dnm it! don’t get physical other than to grab her arm to stop her from hitting you or something like that. And if it comes to the point where you won’t just let her walk all over you, then chances are, she’ll stop. Alternatively, tell a friend’s parent or your dad. I hope that helped (: Best of Luck- M

your awl sooo gay you don’t nw nything anh your mumyyz dey delivered you from their pussies and it reliii hurt so think abah them you suckers

Hey, you’re 13 years old. YOU are making your mother realize that SHE is getting old.

I don’t think that she really hates you. I think that she may just not know how to relate and deal with you.

Maybe you could try saving up a few buck and take her out to lunch. Even McD is okay, it’s the thought that counts.

Try to establish some You and Her time where the two of you can do things, even if it’s just window-shopping.

You need to find some time where the two of you can communicate. Where you can comprehend where she is coming from and where SHE can begin to understand a little more about you and who you are becoming.

She may be having problems that you aren’t aware of. Give her a break and try to be tolerant. Avoid situations that you know are likely to set her off.

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I will do that to!move out!I live in europe and its winter now and very cold but if it was summer I would take my money and just run away!my friend told her mom that she was gonna jump in front of a train so her mom is real nice to her now, I’ve written emails and texts about how I feel and that I just wanna die and the next hour or so she takes my feelings like joke,she starts saying dunmb stuff like”arent you gonna kill your self??” or “well run away, thats want you want, right??” its gone about 10-20min since she took of her sandal and was gonna slap me ine the face but I kicked the sandal away but the she slapped me in the face so my glasses almost broke. I just wish that I could just lay down and DIE!!!and now we got guests and she told my dad the whole story, IN HER POINT OF VIEW AND NOT TELLING ABOUT THAT SHE SLAPPED ME!!!and if I tell her like when we have fights I go”well you hit me and you promised that you woudnt do it again”then she goes after about an hour or so like”I just hit you, you hate me” I actually do but I dont wanna tell her…=’( can somebody help me please!!! P.S.I could tell ypu more but my mom might slap me if she sees this…

I am in exactly the same position today she held me up and smacked me across the face twice , I dont no what to do I have asked my dad but he is useless too because he has only got a 1 bedroom flat . And I feel like I could kill myself but then she actsn nice too me and I dunno whether to go to my head who will put me in care or just deal with it or hit her back I am only 13 and as soon as I am 18 I am going to smack her stupid

I have the same problem to.. you c my mom just got a new boyfriend 8 months ago.. And I’ve been trying to get along with him and her.. Its truly hard and I cant stand having fights with my mom… When we get in fights she always says me and you have time together all of the time. And then she says your poor brother doesnt get any attention at all. So what should I do… Also would a solution to this be to stay away from home all the time like with my grandma and my friends… Like should I get out at um 3:30 when I get home from school and stay out until 7:00 or 8:00 at night… and one more thing it drives me nuts when my mom says oh life is not fair… And she also tells me that the only time I want anything to do with her is when she has money… I hate it so would somebody please give me some advice to this…

my mom treats me the same way but its okay you just need to look forward with your life

we’ll my mom doesnt hate me we just get into fights a lot but one thing I know sit down and talk with her tell her how you feel it will make her guilty then aware or go live with your dad stay strong bud.

Hi,you should tell an friends parent,teacher,or a friend thats an adult.maybe tell a friend to tell there own parent cause it isnt easy to tell someone your getting abused.and you are wrong a lot of people care about you I do,and I hope she will stop and see what she is doing is very wrong cause no one likes being hit or yelled at makes you feel unloved or you will tell someone and she will be away from you and stop hurting you.

Have a nice day

my mother just hit me because my room wasnt clean!!! there was no reson!!! esspesually that we are in dcf!!! my mother is an idiot!!

what if your parents aren’t divorced and both of them beat you excessively? Thats what I deal with

hey, guess what I have that same issue. my mom and I get into a ton of fights. I am so tired of it to. and if your parents are divorced definetly take some time with your dad. it will help a ton. I am at my moms most of the time and she gets sick of me too. I to feel like nobody cares about me. I have the same trouble. I DO CARE!!! :) your way to good for this kind of treatment. if you say no one cares think again. I hope things get better and that you and your mom can fix it. you should definetly take some time and go to a counsler or someone that you trust and tell them about it. and if your mom does hit you just call the police or tell someone that you trust and they can help you fix that problen. just don’t do anything that your going to regret, trust me I tried when me and my ex boyfriend broke up. just do the right thing and then you will get what you deserve… which is respect and love.