what should I do with this girl?

okay well I’ve know this girl for a long time. (9+ years) so she came over for new years and hung out, same ol same ol. but that night when we crawled into bed I decided to make a move just for the heck of it. so as were laying there in the dark I put my arm around her. then I grab her hand, and 30 minuets later I get up and go to the bath room. as I climb back into bed (note* its pitch black) I go to put my arm back around her and I notice something different, hm, she took her shirt off. so I go about cuddling with her and holding her hand and not 20 minuets later she takes my hand and puts it on her boob. so as im laying there with our legs tangled, my arm around her body, with one hand on her breast and one hand holding hers im trying to figure something out, now this was at like 6 in the morning, and I havent slept for a while, so im trying to figure out if it was a dream or not. so later that afternoon when we wake up she acts like nothing happened. so I could get to the bottom of this I invite her to stay again last night. but I make sure to slip myself some caffeine so I can find out what really happened. and sure enough, later that night we climb back into bed and about 10 minuets into it the same deal goes down, only this time, since I know she wants it and I wasnt dreaming we both go a little farther. anywho, that next morning I decide to confront her about this, except, she denies it ever happend, it wasnt so much like a regretful deny, it was more like a “lets keep this a secret” type of deny or a “im to shy to talk about it” type of deny. so yeah, now that youve read all about this and now that you are probibly turned on… here are my questions… 1)why would she jump so fast like that after years of No, None, Nada, Zip physical connection from her, not once did she flirt, look at me like that, touch me, make sexual jokes, or anything, hell we barely even hugged eachother… 2)why does she deny the fact that we had anything going for us those nights… 3)if we do end up dating, would it be morally wrong to date her, considering the fact that she is my ex gfs sister and my other exs best friend… Help Please…

Answer #1

Question 1 answer- Maybe she did that because she was feeling lonely or just down. Question 2 answer-she may not want to talk about it. Some girls can be shy when it comes to stuff like that. Question 3 answer-Talk T0 Y0UR EXS FIST(:

Answer #2

She did that so fast because she’s liked you the whole 9 years. been there, done that. just not the bed thingy… :-> but, if you like her ask he out! it’d make her very happy, and I bet you’d get a little farther if you wanted it. I think that the next time this happens, take off YOUR shirt first, see her reaction. That should asnwer all the other questions tied into yours. Do you want this? If you don’t tell her I’m not ready for it. If you do, keep doing what your doing, she really likes you.

Answer #3

okay that sounds like a good idea. ill try talking with her, what bothers me tho is that we have been broken up for a longg time now, and her sister and her best friend (my exs) both have new boyfriends! so the shouldnt care right? they are the ones who didnt want to be with me after we dated for a pretty long time. its not that I dont treat them right either, all of my girlfriends are freaking spoiled!… probably thhe cause for my low money ammount… and I treat them good talking to them and stuff, I would never abuse my girl and they always get what they want. so its not like their going to try to protect her from me, casue im a really good guy and they no that, so why would they not want this for s? Jealousy?

Answer #4

Okay, I just had to make sure no one was intoxicated here.(: Hmm. She sounds like she doesn’t trust you or something like that. Either way, it was good that you tried talking to her sister. It may be a better idea to talk to her the next time you see her though, that way she can’t really ignore you or log off. And tell her not to ignore you because its important.

Answer #5

thanks, ill try that, and haha no she wasnt drunk. (or high)(drugs are bad ;p) and I tried talking to her sister, we were iming on a social site, here; her “so you and my sister?” me “huh?” her “dont huh me you two slept in the same bed” me “so, I sleep in the same bed with nikki all the time” (nikki is their older sister and my big sister figure) her “ thats different you wouldnt make moves on nikki” me “ what makes you think id make moves on cori” her” cause I know you” me “ well even if I did it wouldnt matter” her “ why wouldnt it?”

then she logged off…

Answer #6

Question 1 answer- Maybe she did that because she was feeling lonely or just down. She could also like you but be good at hiding it. And plus, it was New Years. Was she intoxicated? Question 2 answer- She may be denying it BECAUSE shes your ex’s sister and your other ex’s best friend. Or she may not want to talk about it. Some girls can be shy when it comes to stuff like that. Question 3 answer- First talk to your ex’s about it!!! Before you do anything else with her, you need to talk to them about it!!! I hope I helped(:

Answer #7

kay thank you :))

Answer #8

okay ill give that a try, thanks for the help! :)

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