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What do I do about my dad hitting me?

Asked by crystalclear_xx about 1 year ago, 10 answers.

My dad hit me. I thought I was just being a bit bad. Then he did it again, and again, and again. For no reason. Then he just threw me against a wall and beat me. He told me not to tell my mom, or else. What do I do!?

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dog Answered by amblessed on Apr 14, 2007, 10:09PM
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This is what I would do.....set up a hidden camera to catch him in the act (evidence)....I would make a copy of it and give it to a trusted friend with the instructions: 1) show it to No-one unless I tell you to....keep it somewhere very safe 2) anything really bad, give it to the authorities....NO-ONE deserves this abuse....I might use it to spur my mother into action or last resort, use it to show him, advising there's another copy so the abuse stops TODAY !....I might also present your situation as a HYPOTHETICAL to a person in authority (minister/police/trusted adult) to get some advice/feedback (ie: I have this friend......)....bottom line and MOST imortant, YOU STAY SAFE !....you'll be in my thoughts and prayers.......

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It's just me Answered by littlebit30311 on Apr 14, 2007, 09:58PM
| 25 answers.

ok.. the real answer to this question is... TELL SOMEONE!!!!!! Honey, I knwo you dont want o get your dad in trouble or anything but you need to tell someone as soon as possible.

Answered by lost_forever on Apr 15, 2007, 09:35AM

If you don't get this addressed it will ruin your life. I have been beaten since I was 5 or so, and it didn't stop until I was 16, and it has destroyed my self confidence. I don't know how to take a compliment, I'm constantly wary that someone will do this to m eagain and most worrying - I fear all the time I will become like my dad.

As I had a little boy myself, that last fear because so bad that I faked an affair to get a divorce. Now his mum has found a new partner so he's safe. But I miss him..

im on the left Answered by xrubyx2399 on Apr 15, 2007, 03:33PM
| 68 answers.

just call child services or call the damn cops! damn dont let people...no matter who it is....push you around! you need to tell someone before something really bad happens!

Answered by softballz626 on Apr 15, 2007, 05:55PM
| 26 answers.

OMG tell your mom then call police or go 2 school counseler do something tell someone immediattly!!!!!!

lol Answered by lookingforward on Apr 16, 2007, 03:18PM
| 75 answers.

I would adise you to go to your guidance counselor she can help, a lot

Answered by ivanus on Apr 17, 2007, 12:11PM
| 13 answers.

call the cops or move out

Answered by sparkygal13 on Apr 19, 2007, 06:22PM
| 12 answers.

Wow you need help. Tell someone then stay away from your dad as long as you can until he''s in jail or is somewhere where he cant hurt u.

And if the dark could make it fade away... Answered by reiyn on Apr 19, 2007, 07:36PM
| 29 answers.

You should really talk to someone that you trust, though telling your mom right off the bat might not work. Unless she knows about your dad's oddities, she might not believe you (worst case scenario). Try talking to a teacher, guidance councillor, or another adult that you trust. At the very least, you should talk to a friend that you can trust to keep quiet.

I hope things turn out okay.

Me && Him Answered by love1994 on Apr 21, 2007, 11:05AM
| 17 answers.

Hunny, I know he is your father && you love him. But their is somthing seveirily rong with him if he is abusing you. If yo have any markes or bruses from the incedent I sugjest, if your close to your mother, show them wo her && then she will handle everything.
Good luck babe.
Layra♥

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