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What do i do if my little brother is hitting me?

aaah :) Asked by imprettycool0 11 months ago, 16 answers.

I'm 15. He's freaking 12. He can dish it out but he CANNOT take it. I'm sitting in my room crying right now. He's slapped me across the face more than 2 times today, he's punched me, and he's done everything in between. I'm getting so f*cking pissed at...

him its not funny. He looks like a little girl. He's a wussy. My parents just yell at him to stop, but like that's supposed to do any good. We were hitting each other in the bathroom, and I trapped him in the corner. I could've nailed him. I could've hurt him, but I didn't because I knew I'd make the f*cking baby cry. I know its so stupid and childish of me to still do this, but I can't help it. I just want to beat him. What am I supposed to do? I'm not some physco if that's what you're thinking, I just cannot stand him hitting and slapping me and kicking me anymore.
And I'm really sorry for my language. I don't normally cuss, but when I get angry, very angry, I blow up.

Twilight Quotes Answered by cjscoot on Dec 24, 2008, 08:55AM
224 answers

Ok, sweetie, first you need to understand why he is hitting you. Is he angry at you? just doing it for fun? The question is, why? Now, you are angry, and I can understand that, because I have a little sister and the same happens with us. Do whatever you can to make yourself calm where he can't be. Take a ride on your bike or take a really long walk. Try to forget about him. When you are ready, go back inside. Just chill, read a book, watch tv, draw whatever. If he comes up to you, and it looks like he's about to hit you, stand up, and put your hands up. Act like you are working with a bear. DO NOT HIT HIM. If you do, it will only make him more angry. Now, speak quietly, and ask him why he wants to hit you. All the time, walk slowly backwards until you can get to your parents. Just refrain from hitting him, and if he hits you, get something like a pillow to block yourself with. Make him understand that you aren't going to fight him until you can get help from mom and dad. Do this a lot and he will start to realise that you aren't going to hurt him and he shouldn't waste his time with you. He's acting like a bully, and bully's feed on other's pain. When you show him you aren't going to be in pain or give him pain, he will stop.

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... Answered by xokrystalklearxo on Dec 24, 2008, 08:51AM
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omg I have a twin brother where the EXACT SAME WAY!! like no lie..where constantly fighting and hitting each other to a point that I feel like srsly hurting him...what I do is tlk to mi aunt...she's the only one that disciplines him because mi mom sure doesn't -_-

NIPPLES !lol Answered by gooner_17 on Dec 24, 2008, 08:52AM
143 answers

omg your bigger, just throw him in his room , your smarter use words to get to him, are you serious.

With Glasses Answered by andrew_89 on Dec 24, 2008, 08:56AM
169 answers

uuuh beat his a** I guarantee a good beating will set him straight you really shouldn't put up with that kind of abuse especially since (according to your description) he's smaller than you, if your parent's don't do anything just beat him Christ... he's trying to prove something maybe he's bullied at school etc... beat him it worked with me and my sister lol she was 5 years older than me when we were kids and we would fight like cat's and dog's but she used to beat me if I attacked her and guess what? were extremely close today lol

Twilight Quotes Answered by cjscoot on Dec 24, 2008, 08:58AM
224 answers

DO NOT HIT HIM!!! He's being a bully, you shouldn't hit him because he'll like that, and want to fight you more!

With Glasses Answered by andrew_89 on Dec 24, 2008, 08:58AM
169 answers

uuuhh cjscoot he's a 12 year old kid, not a wild animal or an escaped convict lmao

Twilight Quotes Answered by cjscoot on Dec 24, 2008, 09:01AM
224 answers

Ok, ya, I understand that, but I have a little sister who does the same thing. When you fight them, they know your up to the challenge, and they will want to fight you back and make you hurt. When you ignore them, or just like protect yourself, it works and they get bored and stop.

With Glasses Answered by andrew_89 on Dec 24, 2008, 09:03AM
169 answers

yeah but you have to display authority, if you get him to the point where he realizes that if he hit's you there are consequences he WILL stop because in his mind if you go crying to your parents he win's

Answered by boss1 on Dec 24, 2008, 09:07AM
45 answers

tha top ansa is true bu I hit ma lil sista back bu dey challenege you 2 see if he kud beat you up I dink you shood not talk to dem at all untill he learns his lesson

aaah :) Answered by imprettycool0 on Dec 24, 2008, 09:14AM
1182 answers

I hate when people talk like that. that iz so annoyin!

Sorry, that was mean, but it annoys the crap out of me.

Twilight Quotes Answered by cjscoot on Dec 24, 2008, 09:19AM
224 answers

Ok, sure andrew89, but at least you don't get hurt in the process. And, he will get punished if she keeps coming back to her parents.

Answered by sk8rchic4lifewithabrokenheart on Dec 24, 2008, 09:21AM

Tell your parents about the situation when they are around and they would talk to him

Answered by brittanybold on Dec 24, 2008, 10:07AM
66 answers

I dont think your crazy for saying this my brother does the same things and more he steals my money and envades my room when im not home I just beat him up I gotten into aruge ments with my mom because she says hes only 10 but I dont care I want to teach him a lesson if you hit me your going to get hit back but I used to try to talk to him but hes got such a thick skull I could not get through to him so I started to not really hurt him but hurt him enough to show him im no joke but warn your parents tell them what you told us and say If you guys dont stop him Im going to have to defend myself but not in a rude way say it like your so inoccent (which you are!)

H3LL0 Answered by aarons_senorita on Dec 27, 2008, 12:40PM
35 answers

I HAVE THAT SAME PROBLEM..
BUT IF MY SISTER HITS ME I HIT HER BACK
I know MY MOM WILL FUSS AT ME and MY SISTER MAKES A BIG SCENE
BUT I don't CARE I JUX TAKE THE CONSEQUENCES and BE DONE WITH THAT.
and BESIDES YOUR BROTHER IS TOO OLD FOR THAT HE NEEDS TO CHILL

Answered by samyates96 on Jun 29, 2009, 10:47AM

My brother goes mad and he threatans me and my family with knives I dont think he wants to stab somone but he dosent relise how serios my mum takes it once she wanted him to be sent away to school.he also has problems but somtimes he uses that as an advantage.my advice is dont hit him but talk too your parents they will come up with a pnishment,only one problem for me,they feel too sorry for him!!

Shark Atack Answered by funadvice on Sep 25, 2009, 10:26PM
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block all his hits until he gets tired an then just laugh at him as he's exhausted also don't physically fight back because then he'd crie and you would get in trouble mentally fight back

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