What do I do if I think im bi?

I think that im bi. But im not sure. I would like to try it with a girl but I dont know how. Or how to ask or ya know.. I dont know what kinda girls are into this sorta thing.

Answer #1

doesnt work for you… doesnt mean it wont work for her :p

Answer #2

youve just gotta chat a bird up and try it…

theres no other way of 100% finding out if you are or not unless you can say ‘I like watching lesbian porn aswell as straight?’

Answer #3

dont matte girlsmlike gay people x

Answer #4

See kaze’s answer.

Answer #5

No, that doesn’t really work, ClawJaw, because I’m straight and can watch both…

Right now, you could ‘label’ yourself as Bi-curious; You’re certain you like guys, but you’re willing to try and experiment to see what it’s like with girls.

I’d suggest you go to a gay bar, [yes, I know it sounds really stupid.] or some sort of Gay youth thing near you, and try make friends with some lesbians/bi’s. they might be willing to help you out ;D. but, seriously, take your time, and dont start running around boasting that you’re bi, or whatever, until you’re 100% certain, seeing as you may lose friends over that fact.

I know this, because a while ago I was kinda in the same position, but decided/found out that girls aren’t really what I’m into, and I prefer guys ^__^,

Answer #6

Sometimes it takes a while to sort things out. One way of looking at it is that if you are bi that improves the odds of finding someone you are compatible with since you can dip in either well. Anyway, if you find yourself attracted to someone of either gender than go for it. I do know people who seemed sure they were straight but years later realized they were gay and I know women who had crushes on other women only to realize it was an infatuation rather than their sexual orientation.

I have a slightly different way of looking at this than most people. I look at it from a relationship point of view rather than sexual. I personally don’t think I could form the same depth of relationship with a man as I can with a woman. If it was the only game in town I could have sex with another man but I can only imagine myself pairing for life with a woman.

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