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What do I do about these two boys?

I know these two boys really well. Lets just say there names are Billy and Bob. Billy is from illinois and told my friend that he likes me a lot and would do anything for me while Bob is my current boyfriend and we love each other. But, I love Billy just as much as I love Bob and they want me to decide… Bob doesnt know I have to make this decision and he has a temper so I can’t tell him. Please help me what should I do?

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Answer #1

Sometimes you don’t want to just follow your heart though, because it can get you in trouble. What if Billy wants you sooo bad right now because he can’t have you and once you leave Bob and get with Billy then Billy changes his mind and says he doesn’t feel as strongly about you (because the chase is over) then you won’t have Bob. But if Bob has a temper he is probably controlling too and goes through your phone, dictates what friends you can and can not talk to or hang out with…so all in all your current relationship is probably not healthy because if it was you wouldn’t even have the slightest thought about leaving Bob for Billy. You would have never paid any attention to Billy either if Bob satisfied you 100%. You may subconciously not realize Bob and your relationship is unhealthy or that the reason you seek Billy is because Bob doesn’t truly make you happy. So think about the pro’s and con’s and every consequences or scenario that could possibly happen and base your decision on what YOU reallly want. I hope you make the right decision, good luck!

Answer #2

Bob is rather controlling sometimes but he doesnt control my personal life… I hear him bragging about simple things like if were ever really close to each other he brags about that moment and stretches it into someting that it wasnt before… But Billy never does that… they both have me sooo confused

Answer #3

well choose what ever you feel your heart billy sounds like a great guy yet bob is your current love so it might seem like hes the only one for you but some times other people make your directions change maybe you should take some time from bob and finnd out what you wanna do so you can think because your no good in a relationship when you have another boy on your mind

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