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What Can I Do To Make My Best Friend Closer?

My best friend hates me. I’ve started a lot of fights over silly things and I always lose the fight and end up crying. I have gotten her into a lot of drama in the past that she had no busniss being in. I have an attitude problem and give people attitude a lot for no reason, and im kinda mean… anyways she hates me now and I blew my last chance with her with my attitude she called me a bitch and a dumbass, she never wants to speak to me again. I wrote her a song from the heart and she thinks its from the internet and is corney. it isnt and I told her she said she doesnt care. I really love her as a friend but she hates everything about me. what can I do to get closer to her again?

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Answer #1

You can back off. As corny as this sounds, if things are meant to work out, then they will. First you can start working on yourself. Why would she want to be friends with someone who is going to continue to do those things and just apologize again? In a few days try to make contact again. Send her an email or whatever. And just continue to try and make contact. Dont force it and dont do it constantly or every day. Dont expect her to reply if you email or text. Dont take it personally and dont get upset. You messed up. She may decide she wants to be your friend, she may decide against it. Either way, at this point all you can do is just try to be a friend. And try and remember, that if you are really her friend, then you want what is best for her. This isnt about you.

Answer #2

haaave aaa ssleepover,girlfriend! duhh, it always works, just sayind =D or go to the mall

Answer #3

If she was your best friend, she would not treat you that way. She would try to help you. You already know what your issues are, you must try to straighten them out. It is easy to be nice

Answer #4

well she’s not gonna wanna be your bff till you decide to change yourself and prove to her that you have changed and make it up to her. try your hardest and don’t ever give up if you truly wanna be as close as you say you want to be than don’t give up! if she sees your determination (don’t confuse determination with nuisance) and change then she’ll gladly call you her best friend!

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