What can I do about this guy?

Ok. So I like this one guy A LOT,but hes already taken. His girlfriend is a total freak and I dont see why he likes her. I want him to break up with her,or her to break up with him but I doubt that she would break up with him because all of a sudden she thinks shes in love,but shes not. I dont think that they are very good together. It would make me happy if they broke up,but that might cause some pain to this guy. I would love it if he went out with me,but I know things dont always happen that way. I want him to be happy but I also am highly sure that the girl is using him. I saw her flirting with some other guy today. I really wanted to tell the guy about this,but he would not be convinced because he would think that I am just trying to break them up. What should I do? Tell him and break his heart? Or let him find out for himself and leave it to the girl to break his heart? I just want him to be safe and happy.And to those that think I am trying to tamper,I am not. Like I said before, I am just trying to help him,not hurt him. Please help. Thank you.

Answer #1

@ lover9 I somewhat agree. leahluvsjake should let him choose who he wants to be with, but at the same time, I would like to know if my girlfriend was flirting with other people. leahluvsjake, you should just have faith that he will like you, if he doesn’t, I definitely know that there are way better guys that probably already like you than him. I hope I helped!

Answer #2

@ sabinascissorhands thats offensive to me cause I am in the 8th grade and to answer your question leahluvsjakejust wait I had the exact same problem and if you catch that girl doing anything else! tell him I did this because his girl was being a skank ( she was flashing other guys while going out with him) and he broke up with her the very next day… so if things with her start getting worse tell him what uv seen hope this helps ~CTV P.Safter hes broken up with her or shes broken up with him talk to him a lot and be nice and stuff he ll start thinking your his shoulder resulting him to have feelings for you or it could go the wrong way and ull be his best friend

Answer #3

How old are you all? This guy wouldn’t be..broken hearted if someone said “I saw your girl friend flirting with some one else.” Honestly, you sound like me when I was an 8th grader. I was always after taken guys. But I learned; IF THEY’RE WITH THEM, THAT’S WHO THEY CHOOSE. If you like him as much as you say you do, then you won’t interfear with their relationship. I like how you said you’d feel bad if they broke up because it would hurt him. That’s very caring of you. :) I’d say you should find someone else… because I never knew how the girls felt when I messed up their relationship until it happened to me. It’s the worst feeling in the world. If it’s meant to be, it will be. You just need paitence.:)

Message me or whatevez if you’d like to chat. ^-^

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