Should I get an abortion for my boyfriend?

If you were pregnant and you told your boyfriend but he doesn't look too happy about it, what would you do?
What if you going to about to be 4 months and still didn't tell your mother?
What if your boyfriend wants an abortion but you don't but you going to do it anyways just for him...what would you do?

Well if you want to have it then you have it.But you also have to think about what if you have it will he help because you didn't have that baby byself so therefore you shouldn't have to rise it by yourself but you should tell your mother and talk it over with your boyfriend soo that he can see where you'll coming from and how you really do feel

Well first of all, I think that if you and him had sex, and he didnt think of the coniquences then its his fault for not expecting a baby. I really dont knwo what to do about not telling your mom, I mean if it was me, I would tell her and she what she thought, I mean she could help you through your pregnancy, I mean she was pregnant once. And if your boyfriend wants to kill the baby that you and him made together, thats his problem, but the final decision is up to you, no one can make you do anything. I wouldnt do it(have the abortion) but like I said the final decision is up to you.

I wouldnt give a rats what my boyfriend thinks! this is your body...your choice! if you want this baby then you have this baby, but you need to tell your mother as soon as possible becos if you are 4 months along already your going to start to show soon, and to have an abortion you need to have it done within 3 months of 1st becoming pregnant so if you are already 4 its to late for an abortion. Go get a check up at your doctor. But you do what you want to do, not what your boyfriend wants.

I was not married when I got pregnant, I knew the consequences. Now it is my responsibility to take care of my child. Before you do anything, talk to your parents. You may find that the shock and disappointment won't last long. Maybe like me, almost 16 years later, your mother(grandma) will be going with you to help pick out the first prom dress(or tux...lol). Either way talk to your parents first, even adoption may be an option.

Think about this...when you are older and do get married and have a baby, can you look at that baby and not think 'you could have had a brother or sister' without it hurting you. I am not being mean, I am a pro lifer, but my best thinks about that everyday of her life.

Good luck and talk to your parents.

keep your baby tell your mom yell at him who cares what your boyfriend says hes just not ready to be a dad

NO, you will regret it for the rest of your life.....

Sooner or later your child will give you happiness.

well the same thing happend to my sister that now has a 19 month old baby boy. she was 18 when she was pregnant. my sister b/f that she luved so much was really cool about having the baby but then when she told my family at 6 months(besides me I knew at three months) then her b/f had second thoughts and didnt want the baby and started taking pills and everthing so she isnt with him.
but I think that that you should have the baby and dont wory bout your b/f because if he really cared about you he will come around at point of the preg. and I would tell your mom really soon.

**also sum advice but you may not have this prob.
if you have a little sister that is like 10-14 and you guys are really close make sure that is the first one in the family you tell and make sure you tell her very gently and everything because if she is the way I am with my sister she will b really sad and probaly will hate you threw out the whole preg.
also if you do have a little sis and the baby is sapose to born around her birthday make sure you dont joke around and say that the baby is going to b born on her birthday because she willl get really pised!!!

na you should murder your unborn child just because your boyfriend or your mom is upset, its not right to kill your baby if you dont wwant it have it anyway and give it up for adoption

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