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How to get out of this living situation?

me bord Asked by samantha1993 about 1 year ago, 4 answers.

o0ok so I been livin with my grandparents sence I was 6months old and ever sence I was young I always loved it but now my grandfather just get on all my nerves he yells at me and my lil bro everyday for no reason like today I went and I got my nails done...

when I get home he tells me that I cant eat dinner cause I wasnt here on time but after a while he let me eat and for the last past 2 hours hes been yellin at me and I dont know why every day he yells over stupid sh*t and he is always sayin that my grandma is cheatin on him and she doesnt she sleeps all day goes to work at night and comes home and does it all over again I dont understand I want to move so bad but my grandmother wont move and my mom and dad wont take me in what do I do

My eye sees all Answered by mozz on Feb 19, 2008, 05:51PM
37 answers

your grandpa is lonely
he doesn't have any family time unless you guys are there
he might just bbe saying that your grandma is cheating on him because
1. he might really think so
2. he just wants her home more often
and as for your parents...I mean if they sent you guys to your grandparents since you were 6 months old, im sorry to say this, but I dont think they want you guys to be part of their lives

Shark Atack Answered by funadvice on Feb 19, 2008, 05:59PM
53843 answers

there's nothing you can do. some people are just like that.. go talk to your grandpa and tell him he's being an @ss. in nicer words of course. and tell him you don't know what youre doing wrong... communicate. your parents aren't going to take you, that option is over.gone.byebye. all you can do now is sort out your problems with your grandpa and hold in there till youre old enough to move out.

Flowers Answered by clcraig40 on Feb 20, 2008, 09:24AM
9 answers

I think you need to think about how your grandparents were raised. It was a different time for them. They sat down to meals and ate as a family. If he/she has enough respect for you and your brother to cook a meal, then return that favor by having the same respect for him/her by sitting down and eatting with them. Parents and Grandparents just want kids to respect them. Help them with things around the house. Keep your rooms clean. Try saying thank-you,( and mean it) Everyone likes this. Help with cleaning the kitchen when you are done eating. Just a little respect goes a long way. If this doesn't help at first don't give up, it may take a while. Grandparents are full of stories. Ask question about there life as a child what it was like growing up. What there first car was the color. This will make them feel important. Then you can also pass these stories on to your kids someday. I don't know how old you are but, Stupid SH* to you will be important SH$%^ to you when you get older. Please try and remember this. Like not picking up your clothes isn't important to you, BUT to your grandparents it is. Respect there rules. I am a mother and someday maybe a grandmother. My children are 27, 15 and 13. I dont know if I could take on grandchildren and raise them its a very hard job with raising children.
I hope someday you get the chance to experience this first hand. Children are a blessing. Remember that at your grandparents age they should be living out what time they have here on earth enjoying each other. They have two grandkids in the house. This leaves very little time for them. They are taking care of you guys. So try and help out as much as you can so grandma can give grandpa some attention he needs. It will make everyone a lot more happier. Life is not easy, learn now how to deal with your situation now and it will give the experience to deal with life experiences later on. Good luck to you and your brother. Oh yea if he is anything like my brother was growing up. You will need to teach him how to clean. Boys do not have a cleaning gene. One day a wife will thank you.

advisor dog Answered by advisor600 on Feb 21, 2008, 02:31PM
19 answers

there is not a specific way to get out of this situation infact you can not try to escape from your problems.you have to figure out how to make things a little better for u.just remember communication is key.sincerly,advisor600

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