What if I'm 13 and want sex?

Well I was with my man like almost a week ago and we were back in a room without any adults...I had my hand down his pants then he put his in mine...he asked if it was okay like a billion times it seemed like...but anyways he fingr*d me and it felt really good. im 13 so is that really bad??? We've been dating 7 months and are going great...I love him and he says he loves me...anyways of course it made me REALLY horny...and I had my hands around him and was like trying to pull him closer to me but he couldn't get any closer so he said I can't get any closer without gettin in...I really am starting to want to have s*x with him...What should I do??? I want to but we barely ever are alone and he doen't get his Licence for like another year and a couple months...and im younger than him so I can't drive...WHAT DO I DOf???

PLEASE HELP ME

ANYTHING WILL HELP SO ANYONE PLEASE HELP

Please Help Thanx,

youto18

how old is the guy!?

ok, I'm 15 and I lost your virginity when I was 13 to a guy my age, who I'd been dating for a year (at the time, we ended up dating 3 years). and I completely regret it. I mean, this guy "loved" me and even proposed to me, ring and all, but I'm telling you from experiance that I don't think you should do it. plus, this summer, one of my best friends who is regularly on birth control got preganant. so, my advice is if you want to, stick to oral and hand jobs, and save sex for later on in life. because you don't want to feel like I did once it was all over.

hope everything works out. :]

ok I think you should wait but thats my opinion and how old is this guy 15?? but the best thing to do is wait because just think of the long run what if you get an STD or you get prego.thats not good. well

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I think you should go for it I mean he said he loves you and you love him then do it

I would wait.. it leaves you with a lot more options later... I know a girl who lost her virginity when she was 13 and now she has 2 kids and shes 16... not saying this will hapen to you but now thats all she has time for... dosen't go out has a loser guy shes tied to for the next 20 years... not good... just think to yourself... do you really want this dude to have the privilage of experiencing your body???

YOU NEED TO CONCENTRATE ON GROWING UP AND LIVING LIFE ..DO KID THINGS LIKE SKATING , BOWLING , PLAY CARDS , LISTENN TO MUSIC .. STOP WORRYING ABOUT S*X ..

Before having sex you have to:

-Know about reproductive anatomy
-Know about your birth control options
-Have at least one form of birth control that you know how to use
-Know about STDs and how they are transmitted
-Have a plan for what you would do if you did get pregnant (birth control is not 100% effective)
-Feel comfortable talking to your partner about all of this
-Be able to see an ob-gyn every year (all girls have to start seeing an ob-gyn once they become sexually active)

So if you two don't drive, you could not have sex unless you have a reliable and safe way to get to the ob-gyn for your paps and for birth control.

You are not really old enough. Wait at least 4-5 years. This is for your best.

just saying if you LOVE him you can do it but you want to be protected. birth control condom. Just make sure your both ready.

>>>just saying if you LOVE him you can do it but you want to be protected.

What the hell? Love is not an excuse to be irresponsible and stupid.

my advice is go to your schools sex ed teacher and ask if you can use that doll that is like a real baby see if you can keep it for like a week and after a week see what your grade is and think about if thats what you want to do full time before you decide to have sex ask your boyfriend to do the same cause if you get pregnant it's just as much his responsability as it is yours

Why is everyone longing for their lost virginity, when it's gone it's gone and it's OK!! Have sex if you want to. Sex is a normal thing and even if your relationship doesn't last, you know that you've done the right thing at the time.. You should kill your feelings like some people are advising you to do...

You should wait at least until your boyfriend has a car before you have sex. There is plenty of time to have sex in high school and college so don't be rushing into it until then. If you are going to have sex please make sure he uses a condom. Just make sure he's not using you because he's a horny dog.