Thoughts on becoming a single mom?..why arent men interested in me?

Okayy…. well, I’ve had problems with guys my entire life…. my father was abusive (it has since changed, but still), and have been through several extremely scarring long-term relationships. It has always been my goal in life to be a wife and mother. But...

lately I was thinking about the possibility of becoming a single mom in the future (once I become financially stable), and if I meet a great guy after... then getting married...

Im still in college right now (Im studying to become a Spanish teacher), and I know its still early… but Im just the type of person that finds comfort in goal-setting…

I mean, I know I want to have children someday… but I’m beginning to wonder if getting married is the right thing for me. I know I haven’t met the right guy yet… but I’m beginning to question if I ever will.

It’d be nice to someday have a white-picket fence life… but Im not sure that I’ll ever find that. So, I guess my question is…. is there anything wrong with being a single mother?...in the future, of course….

I have a huge heart, and Im a very good person… im good-looking, my personality is just different. im very interesting… its just that im finding that most guys don’t want what I am… I have platinum blonde hair, the heart of a vegetarian, and the soul of a philosopher. I have a very multi-dimensional personality, but in a good way…I really truly am a good person… I don’t understand what guys don’t like about me.
….granted, in college, many guys aren’t looking for serious commitments… but Im just afraid theres nothing else out there….

if anyone can offer any advice, or a bit of hope… lol itd be verryy appreciated…

majority of guys are after personality these days
and with so much personality to offer its very likley that there is one, or even more of the one out there for you
the hardest part is finding him though
it could happen tomorrow, it could happen in 20 years
yoiu never know when its going to happen
but to up your chances of finding soemone,
hang around places with people of similar intrests to you
if you like soemone or see soemone that might be interesting
go up and start a conversation with them
being a single mother isnt a bad thing
also women are just as capable of raising a child without a partner
some women even find it easier
the only problems that might come up later on is when your child starts asking were there dad is
but if you want to be a single mother
it wont be hard to explain to your child when there old enough to understand
but if you dont want to be a single mum though dont settle for your second best
get out there and start meeting people

alright... thank you sooo much... I really appreciate your respondse...
lol it makes me feel like its not the end of the world! haha thank you.

your very welcome :]