Stretching my ears to fit 12 gauge

Is there any way to help speed up the process of stretching my ear lobe
I need them to fit by august 1

My friend pierced his ear and automatically went to a 14 guage, most of my friends have skipped sizes and gone faster than reccomended, I dont have a guage so I dont know if it hurts, but they dont seem to mind. Or they're just that despirate.

carjon it does hurt, I know I fit 14 but its hard to fit in the 12

Just put a fish hook in it and attach it to a passing bus. Or 2 passing busses going in opposite directions - -

jeffzno one wants answers like this
if your on this site and not going to help someone
go to a diff. site

5 days ago, I went to the mall. Asked seller which stretch good for me to first start? I tried 12 gauges. It wasn't feel any stretches. I asked her to change bigger size. She thinks most people choose 8 gauges. I said okay go ahead use 8 gauges. I was too excite and very nervous. I asked her to clean the earrings. I washed my hands by santiziner. Decide put in my ears in mall. I didn't relaize that best way to use warm water soak ears before stretch. It was too late. I was preasure on my right ear. It was pretty hard to put in. My left ear was very easy put in. I felt little pain stinging pain. OUCH my ears turned red. I keep patience, Now, I do still have pains. There is no blood. But still feeling sting pains. I am not sure how long will takes the pain goes away. I do understand how did you feel.

it takes bout 2 weeks for your ears to heal or a week depends on how much pain there is I blew out my ear a couple times im at 3/4ths

I went straight to a 10 with no problem. I was told to wait 2 weeks to go to a 6