How can you tell your boyfriend is over you?

How can you tell your boyfriend is over you? I dont want obvious signs, but something that can really tell me whats going on. We really arent that close any more, and last night we pretty much broke up (I think he got mixed signals from me, so I might...

have to repeat myself tonight) and he coldly told me that he didnt want me to go, but if I wanted to then it was fine with him. I know that whole, actions speak louder then words speaks true here, so can you give me some actions that I might be looking for? Thanks.

-He is not calling you anymore - you have to call him
-He always seems busy when you want to hang out with him
-When your together - his mind seems to be somewhere else
-He isn't as affectionate with you anymore
-He isn't as physical with you anymore
-He is more interested in his friends - than you.
-You have to force him to come visit you almost

ok.. well we are living together, so ... is there different signs then?

He's find reason's to not spend time at home
Your sex life has decreased majorly
He isn't as affectionate with you anymore (hugging, kissing, etc)
He walks out of the room to take phone calls
He comes home late a lot
He doesn't come home some nights
Even when you are both home - he does not spend time with you

my life story.

Wow, I'm sorry to hear that. You need to sit down and talk to him and find out if that is what is going on and if there is a way to fix it or not.

From a guy's perspective: If you want to go, that's fine with me is about as close as you're going to come to him actually being responsible and saying I don't think we should be in a romantic relationship anymore. From your tone, it doesn't sound like you're getting a lot of fulfillment from this situation either. If neither one of you cares enough to fight for it, there probably isn't a lot there worth fighting for.