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Why does he always like to show up without calling first?

My boyfriend likes to show up out of nowhere. I’ll ask him if he’s coming, and he’ll say no, or he doesn’t know, then he’ll show up. Yesterday I asked him if he was getting off early and he laughed and said no (they never let him off early) and before I know it, a few hours later he shows up… he said he likes surprising me, but dang.. I like to know so I can actually be there when he comes lol..

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Answer #1

ha, maybe he’s just the spontanous type ;) or wants to see your reaction of how happy you are to see him surprising you. or maybe he doesn’t trust you and wants to see what your up to when you least expect it. he could have a million reasons why.

Answer #2

Maybe it is just because he likes to surprise you. If you have a problem with it confront him about it. Tell him he needs to tell you when he’s coming.

Answer #3

Makes sense, he likes to jump up and do things… he likes saying/doing things to see my reaction (sometimes, it’s a bad thing) and maybe it could be the last one (doubt it though) … thanks :)

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