Should I have sex with him?

I have a boyfriend that I love very much and he loves me more then any women he as ever had but he wants to have sex with me but I'm not ready for that yet. & everytime that I tell him that I'm not ready he gets mad and he tells me hes going to leave and I dont want to lose him because I love him and he love me to what do I do?

Any guy who truly cares about you, would never push you into sex. Sex is a huge deal, no matter what some people say. Guys see sex as totally physical and don't get their emotions involved.
Don't let him talk you out of what you know is right. If you make out with someone, no matter how far you go, it does NOT mean that you have to go all the way.

Don't be embarrassed or think you will sound immature by saying no to sex. Choosing not to have sex is VERY mature. It would be immature to be pressured into something you don’t want!

If he tells you, "If you loved me you'd do it”, come back at him with, "If you loved me you'd wait". Sex is NOT the only way to show your love for another person. If he loves you, he will wait forever if needed.

Keep in mind that if it was meant to be with you and this guy, it was meant to be right for BOTH of you, not only for one of you.

Your teenage years bring a lot of changes in how you feel about yourself, family, friends and potential love interests - even if you don't think about sex. No matter what your feelings on sex are, it may be smart to wait until something "feels right." And even then, it's a good idea to wait a few months. If it's truly love, and it's meant to be, it will survive and even grow stronger without sex. If it isn't, then you will be really glad you waited and found that out, before you got intimately involved on a physical level.

tell him to grow some balls and wait till he's a man

yeah and what angel said,,lol

exactly. Sorry but he doesnt love you if he doesnt respect you or your body . If he keeps pushed you like that, say no, I'm not ready so you have to wait.
Sorry but It ain't love .

It sounds like...hes using you for sex. If he respected you and honestly cared about your feelings...he would be okay with you not being ready...

Possibly he might come around, and let it go. But I doubt it. Hun, you can find better guys, who will love you. And respect your wishes on waiting to have sex. Good Luck.

-B.

Don't ever let someone use you like that. He is not worth it if he treats you like that, there are people out there that can treat you better. Tell him you are not ready and aren't going to until then. And since has said that you should have already kicked him to the curb. If he says it again make sure he knows you you know you are better.

Babe I don't think you should be even dating this guy, someone who threatens you into a relationship with sex is just not for dating. Wait till you meet a guy that you like and wait for the right time; this is clearly a sign that he is not the one for you.

Hope this helps,

be the tougher person and tell him that if he doesn't man up you'll be leaving first (just to scare him) and if that's what you're comfortable with

I no tis hurts to no but if he wil leave you because you dont want ot have sex with him he jstu wants sex and thats it if he cant appriciate that you dont watn to havve sexyet becuase you just not ready for it he jsshoudl understand and suport you not make you all upset adn get pissed off adn that kidn of stuff im sorry I dont thinkk youshoudl stay with him if he forces you or anthing like that becuase if your not ready then dont dop it