Should i let him finger me?

okay so, theres this kid that I have liked for like 4 years straight and he apparently likes me now and said to me if I would mind him going down my pants or fingering me and I said I didnt mind, so he said next time he sees me hell finger me. should I...

let him do it just to prove my point or should I wait?

Nooo! He is just trying to get into your parents hunn. Not until you are both sure yall will committ to eachother. God wouldn't want that. It just isn't rightt. If you want to message me about something, you are very welcomeee. I'd be glad to help you out or answer any questions. Just please watch out for yourself..

hi its really up to you. do you want him to do it? how do you feel about it?
if you are happy about it , let him do it if not say no.
it is your body you decide.
toni

Woah okay hear me out on this one im a Guy. You have liked him for four years and he comes to you and already wants to play with you that's not good he is probably just trying to get in your pants.

He just wants to get some. Trust me, if a guy isn't dating you and he still wants to be sexual with you.. he's not looking for a relationship. He's looking for the physical aspect of it. Just because you've liked him for four years isn't a reason to do that with someone. Especially if you don't even know FOR SURE if he likes you back. Apparently he likes me back yeah.. if you tell him you'll let him finger you, of coarse he's going to say that he likes you back to get what he wants. Be smart

Hun, If he really liked you, he would ask you to be his girlfriend, not ask to finger you! When a boy asks to finger you, he does NOT like you in the right way, and letting him will only show him how easy you are. This boy doesnt care about you, or respect you, he just wants his kicks off you so he can go brag to his friends what he got. NEVER give a boy anything physical without being in a commited relationship! They will only use you, then move on to the next easy, naive girl!

yeah I understand what everyone is saying..like thats exactly what I thought too but iduno its different because 4 years ago we went out and ever since then weve been really good friends and would dance at all the dances together and he told me he would ask me out soon..but the thing is that hes not trustable at all and sometimes a jerk. now I just dont know what to do about him like for the way I feel about him..and were going to the same highschool too so I cant get away from him.

Never do anything unless you are in a commited relationship!!!