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should I have sex with him or not

ok I’ve been goin out wit my boyfriend now for 7 months…and as you see from my recent questions my boyfriend has been asking me what I thought about sex and stuff and well I been kinda telling him its to soon and tat it should wait, he said its ok if im not ready he understands and tat he would wait till tat time…so from tat point till now im still a virgin but we still have our itamate moments but no cherry popping yet…today I went to the movies wit my boyfriend and well we were in our itamate moment and well he was feeling me down there not fingering me though and he came out saying he really wants to have sex wit me I didnt say nuthing because he already noes the answer….thing is I lately have been getting sexual erges towards him…like right now im feeling and I easly get wet jus by thinking of him or jus kissing him….what can this mean is it tat time….I dont noe what to do im 19 I luv him a lot , I feel tat its to soon and im scared it might ruin things help me :(

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Answer #1

If you believe it is too soon than you should wait.
There is NO reason to rush this as you can only give up your virginity ONCE! I am surprised that no one is reminding you about AIDS, Herpes, and other STD’s You may think you know your BF but you do not know who he as been with before… no matter what he says to you. If you decide you are ready YOU MUST use protection (condom) every time you have sex, until you are ready to have children. You must protect yourself, and him from unwanted pregnancies, and use protection to help protect yourself from diseases. BE smart. BE SAFE. BE Careful.
Above all do not let him force you into anything you are not ready for. Listen to your heart. If it is saying it is too soon…than wait. Waiting for something very special makes that thing VERY SPECIAL.

Answer #2

Reality check, he sounds like a great guy, if he is willing to wait 7 months already without sex then you have yourself a keeper. Its only natural for him to be mentioning it to you becos his body is asking for things as well just like yours is starting to. its all natural. I think that you have made a right choice as this guy is going to be your first, but only you will know when the time is right, if you are starting to feel urges for him then just go with it. I dont think you having sex with him will ruin anything, becos if he was only after one thing he wouldnt be bothered wasting 7 months of his life to get it, sex will only bring you to closer and more intimate with each other. If you still feel its to soon and want to let your body urge for him a bit more then wait a bit, but i think you sound ready to take that step soon.

Answer #3

At the age 19 y old healthy girls should start making real love, even you are now a little bit late with it.

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