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Should i cheat or not?

Asked by happyexcitedconfusedsad over 6 years ago, 4 answers.

There is guy that I really want to be with, and he always tells me that he wants to be with me too. We have done some stuff together, but he haw a girlfriend, who knows nothing about us. He won#039;t break up with her even though he is constantly...

talking about how much he can#039;t stand her and how much he wishes he was with me. Why doesn#039;t he break up with her? Is he just using me? Am I being a bad person by doing things with him when he has a girlfriend? Help me please!

Answered by anonymous_coward on May 30, 2003, 04:02PM
33 answers

What do you want us to say? That you are a bad person and you will burn in hell? That you should cheat with him?

My saying quot;I really want to be withquot;, I am understanding that you want to have sex together.

If you have no hangups about sex, fuck his brains out and see how it goes (of course, use protection). If you do have hangups (ie. sex is bad, my mother told me!), then leave the bastard.

Many people fit in the middle, they just want a little something without hurting anyone else. See if you can make that balance somehow.

Answered by ac on Jun 01, 2003, 10:57PM
12 answers

If he ditches her, go for it.

Otherwise you#039;re being used.

If you can deal with being the quot;other womanquot; and all the crap that goes along with that, then go get laid

Answered by lrrh1977 on Jun 02, 2003, 01:34AM
6 answers

It sounds to me that the attraction is purely sexual between you both and you only question what you#039;re doing because all your life you#039;re told its the wrong thing.

If you can live the outcome of you being the other woman and all of its reprocussions then go ahead.

If he does leave her for you; how do you know he won#039;t leave you for another girl? How is any man going to trust you in a relationship if you#039;re willing to mess around with a man that has a girlfriend?

Think about those questions and remember that a relationship without trust never lasts.

Answered by cascadecandy17 on Jun 02, 2003, 04:00PM

Of course do not cheat! You should never cheat on anyone...even if they do it to you first. Be a kind and caring person. If you are thinking of doing this, you obvisouly dont care for the person. If you want out that bad, just end things and move on to someone else.