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Scared...nervous?

Asked by figureskater24 about 1 year ago, 5 answers.

Okay well my soon to be boyfriend wants me to give him a h.j and I havent done that before.but I asked him what if he cummed.and he said I could just put my mouth over it..and I dont want to do that at all!!! Can I give him a h.j and have him enjoy it...

with out me sucking it??? And how to do it?

Answered by jazlovestoskate on Nov 13, 2008, 07:12PM
10500 answers

during a hand job you ONLY use your hands
if you were to use your mouth it would be a blow job
dont do anything if your not comfortable with it
when he comes you can put your hand over it and catch it, or ask him to do that
you can also stop and he could finish himself off and catch it or use a sock, towel, ect
here is a great site that demostrates different handjob tecniques
they use dildos to show you so theres no nudity in it
and theres a lot of small short videos with different tecniques
http://www.handjobadvice.com/hand-job-advice-intro.html
although if you are scared then your not ready to go this far
and make sure to tell him that your not comfortable with it and dont want to do it now,
he should respect how you feel weather you want to do it or not

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Answered by emeruby on Nov 13, 2008, 06:05PM
207 answers

How old is your boyfriend and yourself exactly... Cause by the sound of this it sounds like the age diffrence is fairly large, Or he is experianced and you are not. Cause by the sound of this all he wants is to slowly push you into sexual habits.

Answered by erin4332 on Nov 13, 2008, 06:31PM
22 answers

dont force your self to do it if he just wants to do nasty stuff all time he just needs to chill

Answered by erin4332 on Nov 13, 2008, 06:31PM
22 answers

dont force your self to do it if he just wants to do nasty stuff all time he just needs to chill

Answered by angelfire2708 on Nov 13, 2008, 08:52PM
7802 answers

Its no wonder you are so scared...hes not even your boyfriend yet, and he already wants a h.j. Dont be a fool into thinking this guy likes you in the right way. He is moving WAYYY too fast. Anytime a guy wants to be physical so soon, isnt interested in a relationship. He is more interested in getting his needs met by a very young, and naive girl he knows will give it to him. In other words, he is using you!

These are the type of guys to stay clear of. The right guys doesnt pressure you to do ANYTHING youre not comfortable with, and not everything is about the sexual side of the relationship. ESPECIALLY when your not even in a relationship!

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