Sapphic life

Sapphic Life, can you help me?PLEASE!!!

I really just want some advice, from someone who is objective, non-prejudice openminded...
I dont know what to do or where to go...
I love her with my whole heart soul, I just dont know what to do...

anymore...
had 2 huge fights, we got physical...never done that before (never thought 2 women would get in2 a fix like that) ever since things just have not been the same. she blames me for everything, even going to see a dr, to deal with my insecurities etc. I'm even on meds again so I can just have some sort of stability. thing is, she plays and flirts with her friend who she slept with while married, before me... gets agro because I find it hard to accept feel threatened, ofcourse she is gogeous has a body etc to doe for yes I am jealous...I hate it, but its true.
my girlfriend also flirts and plays with every other girl she meets or is friends with keeps telling me that that is just her peronality I must accept it. so I try, VERY hard...we were once @ a friends place her daughter kissed my girlfriend in the bathroom because they were joking about the whole I kissed a girl thing it really hurt me!! but I let it go, because she assured me that she pushed her away we left right after... but she leads people on that is why they want her, she says I'm imagining things...
but when we are out, I cant laugh too much, or look at anyone too long, or I'm doing something wrong...accuses me of looking for attention. she wants to visit her best friend yes the gorgeous 1 till 3am without me...what am I?
Now we havent been intimate for over a month to me it is very important as I want to be that close to her...she keeps gettingry with me if I mention it...says she loves me that things will just take time to come right, but I dont know how much more I can take. I know she has been loyal, because there really is no oppertunity for her to cheat on me, but what if I missed it?

we always fight terribly after she has been to her friend, its as though everything I do iritates her, she finds fault with everything I do... I think she suffers from severe depression has terrible anger issues, I just dont know Can anyone offer me some advise???

well I suggest you leave her for someone who will love and accept you the way you are and who wont play these sick little games, she seems really demanding. and well, I've never been in a situation like that before but if I were you I would leave the relationship, you dont deserve to be treated that way, and well if you havent been sleeping together in over a month, than thats bad.