Relationship trust

hi everyone look I have a trust issue,any girl I get with I cannot trust them as bad as I want to I cannot,I somtiems accuse them of talking to other guys like that when deep down I know there not and I dunno why I do this, I've enver cheted on anyone but I have been cheated on once,but this goes before that,I dunno what to do I want to trut a girl but heck I even become controlling at times and I dont want to be,im not a bad guy I want to be better I want to be able to trust a girl and just love em anyone got help please get back thank you,
kevin

ok hon, maybe you just need more communication with your girlfriend. just so she doesnt break up with you because of this problem you have, tell her about it. talk to her about it. and explain to her that your just afraid of loosing her.

if not that, then maybe deep down you have a hard time trusting people and you yourself dont know it. it seems to me like your just a bit scared of loosing that person, or maybe even jealously. maybe im wrong.

hope it all goes well.
good luck

Ok here comes the advice in yellow (just kidding, but listen). What you have might be called a mismatch. A mismatch between how you want things to be and how they are/what you find in real life. Even worse is that girls generally do NOT feel attacted to nice guys such as you, who would do almost anything to make her feel good and stuff like that. Solution: don't be so good and available to every girl you meet, especially not in the beginning, and don't fall in love immediately, until you get to know her better!
Once your trust has been deceived by a person that you love(d), it is very hard to get it back, for some even impossible.
You are very afraid that it might happen again (and it could). You feel bad because you have given a lot and got cheated on. Don't become obsessed with it! There are many girls out there who don't deserve you, who only deserve their sorry lives they are living. Keep in mind that. Besides, girls see the matter differently, and you would be shocked if you heard a girl talking about how she sees it!
Don't generalize (or try not to). If somebody cheated on you it doesn't mean that anybody else might do it. Be cautios, NOT gelous!! And don't stick only on one girl, even if you feel this is right, it's not too good!
What I am saying is: understand and change your perspective.
Let me know if you want something more on this topic, I am full of advice today :D