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Well...im 15 going for 16 this month and im pregnant. My boyfriend is 17 going for 18 on september. From what I know your mom could make you give up the baby. And yes your mom can put your boyfriend to jail because you are a minor just like me. May I suggest something. Please don't get pregnant. Its a really big commitmen im telling you because im pregnant and trust me I wish I wasn't. If you want you boyfriend to be with you don't try to get pregnant just because of that. If your boyfriend doesn't want to be with you then he's stupid because he's just going to loose something really precious and you shouldn't ruin you teenage life by getting pregnant. Trust me. I was going through the same thing you are going through.
your mum may be able to get him in trouble yes because he's sleeping with a minor, if you was already 16 then no she couldn't, but your underage.
your mum cant make you doanything you don't want to, she cant physically decide that you should get rid of your baby or not if you was pregnant, but ifshe did, you have tried for a baby only for it to be terminated ,im neither for or against abortion but I do not like the idea of that at all.
I was pregnant before and trust me it's not all it's cracked up to be, don't get me wrong I wasnt trying like you but I used to think if I got pregnant id kee pit id be happy and that but I really wasnt when I found out, I was shocked and I dreaded telling my parents, I lost my baby but even so, maybe if you got pregnant you would see it in a different light.
also, if its your boyfriend saying that by having a baby you can be together for good, thats rubbish, should you really have to have a baby at 15, 16 or whatever just to be with somebody?
no, you shouldnt, you dont have to have a baby to be together for sure thats not fair on anybody, if you both really care about eachother and everybody around even inclucding the non existant baby you havent concieved yet, don't get pregnant yet, wait till your older, living together and can financially afford a baby. I hope you listen to this and everyones advice, or what was the point in asking us if your going to go opposite and not even listen to us?
I hope you make the right decision,
let me know how you get on
sarah-lou
OK, first of all, WHAT ARE YOU THINKING? You do NOT have a baby to keep a guy. You are obviously way to immature to be having a baby. The fact that you are setting out and trying to get pregnant is sickening. You are soo young, what makes you think this guy is the one you want to be with forever? Having a baby will put a stress on your relationship with your boyfriend or whatever he is. quit being stupid and get your butt to school and get an education. You are not ready to be a parent and you are being very selfish. How are you going to care for this child? you are to young to work. Are you going to live on government assistance and let us pay for your baby? You need to grow up little girl and get over it.
she could NEVER make you give up your baby. it is still your body. and if you have to get pregnat to make sure your together forever--its not a good relationship. you should HAVE TO HAVE a baby tieing you to each other, cause if your not together forever your hurting the child. you should be married witha good job to supprt it and yourselves.
Hello,
Getting pregnant is the best way to lose a guy quickly. I know so many girls I went to school with who have struggled being single parents because they did what you are talking about. Legally, you could become an immancipated minor if you became pregnant, however, 2 of the girls I know did this, and 1 ended up committing suicide because of all the pressure, leaving the child (then age 6) in and out of foster care and grandparents that didn't love it for years. If he cares for you, he will wait. If you behave responsibly, and talk with your mother, and work for her trust (at 41 I still have trouble talking with my mother!), she might leave him alone and consider letting you date and be with him. How would you support the family, having a baby with this boy. And, when he leaves you (trust me-there is a 96% chance he will), how will you support the baby? Chances are, he will be ordered to pay child support (he'll hate you for that one!), and he'll be miserable for living from paycheck to paycheck, and you'll be broke from raising a baby! Keep your relationship the way it is now, because if it is meant to be, it will go on, and if it doesn't there won't be a child to remind you of old times. Good luck, and I hope the TWO (not 3) of you make it together forever, with patience!
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Im 15, and trying to get pregnant so me and my boyfriend can be together for sure. Everyone keeps trying to stop up. If I get pregnant can my mother make me give the baby up since im only 15, turning 16 next month. and can she get my boyfriend put in jail hes 17 turning 18 in july?
someone help?