Why do guys like boobs and vagina so much?

Why do guys like boobs and vagina so much? Their kinda gross. And my boyfriend wants to finger me and whenever he asks I say no cause im not ready . He says im ready but I don't know. He said hes nvr going to break up with me , but im scared if I dont do that with him he will. I love him so much I cant even descirbe it. Like sometimes I do want to do it and sometimes I dont. I don't know what to do. If I tell him I want to wait till im married to have sex, hell think im a loser. And I feel like im becoming a slut... Ugh please help

you are not becoming a slut your becoming horny and you are being seduced by a guy everythings fine... tell him first tho that you are NOT going to have sex (and yes feel free to talk in caps-lol) and tell him that you are a little nervous about being touched/fingered he should understand...I know what you mean I don't know why they like it either but my b/f loves my boobs so much that every time I see him he has to play with them he claims 'boobies are the best toys in the world' yeah right whatever...
you sound lkie you havent done anything like this before so just relax this is part of life part of growing up its going to happen no matter what and its going to happen to everybody...
but don't do anything if you aren't ready... if you do decide to let him finger you then tell him to be gentle and if you already know what you like then tell him what you want (say it in a sexy voice he'll love it)
if you want to then do it but dont let him or anything he says pressure you into doing anything if hes a worthwhile guy then he'll understand and listen...
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have fun experiment while you can...

wow I cant tell you how much your situation sounds like mine and my boyfriend's
I also think he'll break up with me if I dont do anything sexual
he respects the fact that im not ready tho
all I can say is your not ready so dont do it!
talk to him about it
if he's the right person for you he'll understand, he'll wait til marriage, he'll do anything to make you as happy as possible even it means waiting to have sex with u
if he takes it badly then he really is not worth it
im telling you now go with your instincts.
your instincts say your not ready, so your not ready.
him saying you are but you dont know it isnt what you should believe
once you be open with your boyfriend and tell him how you feel and y feel that way then im sure he'll understand
and dont be afraid that he'll break up with you if you dont anything he wants you to do
he's told you he wont so trust it
and if he does then you know its him that lied and you did nothing wrong.
so stick with what is right for YOU not for HIM
and wait til marriage if its what you really want
hec, im waiting til marriage
and im proud to say it
good luck!

what she said

First of all, guys (teenagers especially) like those things because (not all of them, it differs depending on the guy)
1)they find an attraction

2)because they are idiots

3)Because there is a certain mystery around them which is not helped by the fact that nobody likes to talk about it

4)Sometimes they dont even know (like, you will probably think the same thing about guys if not now, then soon)

NOW ON TO YOUR SECOND QUESTION

if you are seventeen/eighteen or younger, I would try and dump him because guys like that either dont care about the girl and just want to have sex, or are completely unfaithful and not very nice people at all, even if they appear nice (which they do just to take the girl in)
hope that helps you with your dillema,
best,
Neoz