He doesnt want the baby but i do

im 14 and pregnant, im absoloutly gutted, me and my boyfriend did it unprotected. He doesnt want the baby but I do. I have to give it up for him, but I dont know how to, do I have to get an abortion? if so how do they abort it? Or do I get some sort of...

pill? please help me.

You do not have to give up your baby for him...if he cared for you at all, he wouldn't force you to do that.

You need to do what's right for yourself - not him.
All he's worried about is the responsibility...well, he helped make this child, now he should take responsibility for it.

Think about it...don't make a wrong decision because of him.

You should NEVER sacrifice your child or your body for a stupid boy who does not care enough about you to not force you to make that decision.
Depending on how far along you are, they can either give you a pill, or you'll have to go in to have the baby removed. I had a friend who had an abortion in high school- they gave her a pill to 'kill' the baby. It didn't kill her daughter, so she had to go in and have a surgery done where they basically cut the baby's skull and abdomen open (they feel pain at this point, long before actually) and vacuumed her little organs and brain out. Then they removed her body bit by bit. This is horrible. Absolutely barbaric. She was 18 weeks pregnant. Before you make your decision, look up photos of what your child looks like in this stage of pregnancy. Determine whether you must kill the baby, or if you can go through with allowing him or her to have a life and put the little one up for adoption. Your boyfriend wont have to worry about paying child support at that point. But I suggest you leave him anyways- he doesn't seem to be very caring. You both need to use protection from here on out, whatever your choice may be.

You dont need to give up this baby he only wants you for sex obviously if he is being selfish and wants to kill something you already love nobody can tell you kill your baby.

I meant 16 weeks, sorry, not 18 weeks.

Pleasee whatever you do dont give your baby up just because thats what your boyfriend wants have you spoken to you parents what do they think? has he told his ? because if he hasnt hes probably too scared to and so the easy thing for him is to try and make you get rid of it if you dont want to dont do it there is plenty of help for you around. You need to speak to somebody else about this and adult would be better someone at school or a relative or family friend
Just please dont do something you dont want to because of a silly boy x x x

When it comes down to it - this is yoru desicion and no one elses .

Your best bet would be an adoption or an abortion seeing as how your only 14 years old and not mentally, financially, or mature enough to raise a newborn.

You need to get in touch with your local planned parenthood. They can give you all the informatioin you need and even have counselors you can talk to that will inform you of the procedures for both abortion or adoption, and then you can make an educated decision.

Okay it's your body and your the one holdig the baby you keep it tell your boyfriend that if he really loves you that he will let you keep the baby put the baby up for adoption if he doesn't want you to keep the baby

Please dont give up your baby

If you can take care of the baby and you want it, then keep it...if not, adoption is an option. PLEASE dont get an abortion