How to stop fighting with my mother?

k how do I get along with my mother..omg... she is drivin me crazy I feel like I have no one here in this world who I can go to...we used to have such a good relationship but now it seems like we can never have a conversation caus all m\we do is fight... about anything and everything... I really need help because I find myself thinkin all the time about cutting myself run away having a eatin disorder sumthn to help destract myself from her... and doesnt help that I have 2 bratty twin nieces makn everything worse...PLEASE HELP... IM UP TO ANY SUGGESTIONS??? : (

WELL FIRST YOU NEED TO SIT DOWN WITH YOUR MOM AND TALK IT OUT, GIVE EACH OTHER CHANCES TO TALK, LIKE YOU GET EVERYTHING OFF YOUR CHEST WITHOUT HER SAYING ANYTHING THEN LET HER RESPOND, THIS SHOULD HELP BUILD A BETTER RELASHONSHIP, AND/OR WRITE A LETTER TO YOUR MOM EVERYDAY ABOUT HOW YOU FEEL ABOUT HER ACTIONS, AND JUST THE WAY YOU FEEL ABOUT HER TODAY, THIS SHOULD DEFINITELY HELP HER UNDERSTAND YOU BETTER!!! UPDATE ME PLEASE!!!

Well I have a great relationship with my mom and I'll tell you how I do it. When she says something that I dont like just go along with it. Many later talk to her about it. Dont yell and try not to get frustrated with her. The problem is. is that your getting older and she feels the need to protect you more, from things like having sex and running away so she can get mad a lot more esaly. Which makes you upset whether you think so or not. And yes sometime we all go threw that phase where children and their mothers fight. Its natural you just cant let your mom get you upset and try not to make her upset. Be a good son or daughter. Go out to eat with your mom go to a movie, just go and do something fun and that will remind yall of the good days when yall got along. Trust me it will work.

ok I had the same problem with my mom
I tried written her a letter she laughed
I tried talkin she yelled
I walked out the house
things got violent
I came back and we talk
she thought I was runnin away
it scared her and seeing her crying because I was gone
something just made me realize
shes complicated
but I was messin up really bad and once I realized that and changed
and tried to stop hurting her
it got better we still have off days but
we have a stronger relationship
I hope you can get through this
=)