How can i convince my parents to let me party all night?

I'm 16, and I love to go out and have fun. But I feel that if I can't go out and party than I'll just go crazy. How do I convince my parents to let me go out and party, and promise them I won't drink. How can I prove to them that they can trust me and...

I'm responsible at a party?

Knowing what you know right now - would you let your 16 yr old Daughter go where others are drinking/possible drugs/possible sex...in short, a lot of evil is going on all around - there's a saying if you lie around with dirty dogs, you WILL get fleas - it's not you, it's that environment, obviously they love and care for you deeply and don't want to see you hurt !...count your blessings - Great Parents !

yea there's a problem with that.....parents say no to that kind of thing for a reason there are tuns of stuff that goes on besides drinking and maybe they dont want u around those type of ppl especcially in that scene

Well, if you are untrustworthy, or irresponsible then, they are probably not going to let you do anything. Plus, you are a girl, and you can get pregnant, so parents are usually more leniant to boys because they can't get pregnant. lol
Plus, it depends on the parents. If you prove yourself responsible, caring, trustworthy,
and capable of making good choices, then they won't need to worry that you aren't
doing something stupid. Sometimes, it doesn't matter how responsible you are, they still won't let you out. It just depends on you and the parent.
The best way to ask your parents, is to sit either both, or the one you can better communicate with. Calmly tell them that you feel that you should be able to go out to a party. Make sure you say A party and not just PARTY, because it sounds better.
Then, tell them about some of your reasons; (ex: your grades are good, you have a job, you help around the house, sports, clubs, anything that you are responsible for)
If they still say no, then well, you are just going to have to deal with that. You can't change anybodys miind, but you can help persuade. If they won't budge, then just wait until you are a little older; I know it's not what you want to hear. But it's the truth. By you getting defensive and saying But everyone else gets to makes you sound immature and pretty stupid actually, but saying okay and then trying to prove to be MORE responsible is the only way to gain their trust.
Hope I helped
and Good Luck
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You will go crazy if you are not out partying all night? Why is that do you think?

Is there a reason you can't sit with yourself at home and have a nice evening occupying your time with your family or your own hobbies? Maybe this is the reason your parents are concerned about your need to be out?

No adult in their right mind is going to come to this board and give you advice on how to convince your parents that you should be out all night partying. Because you shouldn't be out all night partying. You are either drinking, doing drugs, dealing drugs, having sex, trying to have sex, or trying to attract the attention of boys who will try to have sex with you. That's what partying IS.

So chill out, learn to like who you are without going apey all over town trying to validate yourself by looking for any crazy tom dick or harry to make you feel loved, liked, smart, or beautiful.

Your parents love you, like you, think you are are smart and beautiful and 20 years from now when the guys you're out with tonight don't even remember who you are, your parents will still be there.

Chill out. All in due time with the partying you have oh so many years to get out there with all that craziness. Take up a hobby.

I am not trying to sound like a parent here, but judging by your user name, wild and crazy dancer..I actually don't blame your parents for not trusting you...I mean you are sixteen years old..that's barely old enough to drive...and parents were young too..ask them sometime about when they were sixteen..sure, they'll deny drinking and having sex and using drugs..but you're only young once! Try and explain that you feel you're old enough to make your own choices (right or wrong) and that you can live with consequences that sometimes do happen at parties. Best of luck!! =)

Just like sneak out if possible..if not tell them your spending the night at your buds house and the go out and partay..works for me

Hope this helps cutey

i used to want to party all night and BEG my mom to let me go out
she always said NO!
and if i got lucky she would say yes but
she'd give me some wack a$$ curfew that was like 2 or 3 hours earlier than everybody elses
and it usually only gave me like 2 hours out anyway.
so i just stopped asking!
i thought i'd wait til i was 18 to have all my fun
go crazy!
until prom night came around
i asked and she said yes.
of course she gave me a 2:30 curfew
when everyone else was stayin out ALL NIGHT
my first day of freedom was SWEET
until i was sexually assualted.
when my parents found out
they cried of course
and said they wished they couldve protected me..
thats exactly what ur parents are doing by not letting you stay out all night
i was only out for a couple of hours
and i was taken advantage of.
your parents want to protect you from the possibilities that may happen
and at the age of 16
ALL NIGHT is way too much to ask for.

ask them if u can go to ateen club most of them close at 12 o'clock

ask them if u can go to ateen club most of them close at 12 o'clock

yah i have the same problem, but its cuz i f*cked up and got caught drinking 2 times.
my cerfew is 11 and i hate talking to people on the phone while their out partying, i'm laying in my bed like damnn..
but yeah
my parents lecture and say that they dont want me to do everything young because i will be bored withlife or some sh*t..your parents im sure grew up when partying was the best thing around, theyve seen it all, and they dont want their baby girl doin all that. they cant hide you from the world..but while your under their roof they can. i just tell myself when i'm 18 i'm outtt. and then the fun will begin

Okay.. First of all you need to convince your parents that you are a resoncible young lady and that you wont drink or have sexual contact. You to tell them that you will be home at 11:00 because if your driving thats when you have to get home because they dont want you to get a ticket. Soo just beg and surely you'll get ur way

u cant

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I completely understand how you feel, since I am already 20 and yet my parents do not let me stay out all night. Although 16 is slightly young, I still feel that you should be let out. Beyond reasoning with them, proving to them that you are responsible (won't drink too much etc), up to a certain point you simply can't change the way your parents will feel about this issue. Yes, seriously I wonder if my parents ever had a life...

I think your best option would be to lie to them about what you are doing. The sleep-over excuse usually works very well, or tell them you are going to a birthday party of a close friends so you can't miss it.

Okay, let me get this straight...you are 16, and you want to be able to go out and party alnight...LOL, yeah right.

I think you'll just have to wait till you're a little older. Or lie and say you're staying the night somewhere, but come on- you're only 16, your parents would be out of their minds if they let you party KNOWINGLY

dot hings like go 2 sleep late and wake up early pretending 2 b fine! it always works 4 me!

Hahaha.
There's a 20 year old on here who says their parents don't let them go out all night..
And trying to tell a 16 year old to lie to her parents.
How immature.

do what I did. explain to your parents that you could do what most people do sneak out or pretend to stay at a friends house, but you would much rather be honest with them tell them exactly where youre going who youre going to be with. theyll respect your honestly be more leinent about letting you do things. also, accept whatever time they give you to be home. then each time you go out just remind them that you came home safely last time that a half an hour isnt going to do much difference. eventually youll get to be home at the time you want.

If you have a friend whos mom is leneit ,get her to call youre parents and say the party is supervised. Works EVERY TIME! And its sooo funy

Im having the same prblem to but im 18! And my parents still want to talk to my friends parents to make sure that I'm really going there. What should I do next? I really cant have my friends parents call my parents it will never work!