Painful sex

I have had sex 3 times, and tried many other times but that pain was to much. Im very small and it hurts so much to have sex! I mean, when im drunk (which I have been all 3 times I actually did it) it hurts, but I can handle it. It doesnt feel gud and im pretty much just waiting for my boyfriend to finish. I want to b able to enjoy sex, and I thought it would stop hurting by now! I hear that if your mas*erba*e it will help it hurt less, but it doesnt, and if I try to use larger objects to mas*erba*e they hurt just as much! All the lube in the world will not help! I have run out of ideas! Someone please help me!

MAYBE YOUR BOYFRIEND S JUST TOO BIG I MEAN I USED TO HAVE THE SAME PROBLEM WITH MY GIRL FOR AND 3 MONTHS WHENEVER WE DID IT IT WOULD HURT AT FIRST I WENT TO FAST THEN I WENT TO HARD AND ROUGH SO I DECIDED TO SLOW DOWN AND EVERY SINCE THEN IT JUST HURTS ALIL BIT WHEN I PENITRATE THEN I GOES SMOOTH

you also need to relax
and feel comfortable
dont tense up
if your not comfortable and relaxed it will hurt more
so make sure you feel ready and relaxed
maybe spend more time on foreplay or getting turned on first?