How come my parents don't let me do anything?

my parents and sis are to overprotective I drives me nuts really I hate it

my mom won't let me date till I'm like 32 my dad 14 my but when my sis went on a date when she was 16 no one said anything . now that I'm all boycrazy there not letting me have a boyfriend which drives me nuts and I hate that . and my mom won't let me die my hair until I'm 18 like my sis . they want me to be like my sis and I don't want to be . I want to start dating now die my hair now and I want to show them I that I don't lie anymore
because when I was youger I would lie and break stuff but I'm 13 come on its not fair . I just want to show them that even if I date and die my hair I still be the same jenjen they no and love.

really. 13? SO OLD!!! hell no. girl, get over it, you r just too oung, most parents are like that. because they dont want a pregnant 13 year old daughter!! listen to them!!! the hair, make a compromise, but the boyfriend, wait, the longer you wait, the better it is. really. dont rush into things, because ,the more into it you get, the worse the pain is in the end. so be careful. and listen to ure parents.

Trust me, you dont want a boyfriend, too much drama. And you DEFINITLY dont want to be in love, too much heartbreak.

I gotta agree with that!!1

I agree wit kaileyxox45, you shud wait because having a boyfriend is 2 dramatic & theyll just break your heart.

I have a friend in the same sistuation. so I understand.there very over protected it sounds lke. and some parents are like that because they dont waanna let you go.the boyfriend thing to they dont want you to be called sluts or they think god wouldnt accept it stupid stuff like that, but sometimes you have to do your own thing dont let them control your whole life. go off the edge date behind there back dont let em no. I know its like lieing to them but thats all you can do .I hope this has helped u.

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-Well, Maybe your aprents feel that you may be affiliated with groups that are unhealthfull if you start dying your ahir different colors, and start dating boys, I'm 13 and I don't date. Having a boy friend isn't such a bad thing though. Moreover it's sometimes best to wait until your older, sometimes we need to remember, if we are upset because we can't dye our hair, we have a pretty good life. Some people in other countries don't have as much as us.
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No, you know what, screw everyone else =P They dont know how it is. 13 isn't too young to have a boyfriend. I mean, exclusive dating would be different. But I know for sure, I grew up really fast. I acted like I was 16 when I was 13. Still, I think your parents are HONESTLY just trying to watch out for you.. so I don't know, just tryyy 2 listen to them. But we all know your human. so cut yourself some slack and do what makes you happy. [within reason.]

Umm,

I hope you dont believe that your parents wont let you date till you are 32, they cant legally do anything about. so stop making a big deal.

if you keep making a big deal they will think you are immature and less likely to let you date because they think you'll make bad decisions because you are being so immature. wait till you are 15 or 16 to really date. goign to the movies on a group date is about as much as you should do for now.

Well actually I had the same problem that you have but I dont have sisters so it was my cousin they let her have a boyfriend when she turned 13 but I had to wait until I turned 15...I didnt think it was fair at all but its not that their not being fair buts that they are trying to be protective...So just dont hold it against them they are just doing their jobs as parents...When the time comes for you to date you wiil know and dont be afraid to tell your parents when you do start dating because you cant keep secrets from them ir then they wont trust you enough to let you do anything

hey gurlie
my opinion is that you are alittle to young to be going on dates..if you are only 13 most gurls arnt allowed till about 16...and the whole dieng your hair thing that isnt a big deal I dont think...juss tell your mom that you want alittle something different then what you have had for the past 13 years but if that is what you moms rules are then there really isnt nehting you can do to change them