Orgasims

hello, I am a 29 year old female and I can not have an org**m! the guy I am with now is starting to take it personal and I assured him this is not his doing( I don't think) and it is starting to affect our sex because he says since I don't reach climax it affects him psychology, which in turn affects his performance if you know what I mean?

Hey, I realize it's awful. Maybe you just need to simulate org**m from time to time, just to not make him feel so bad. This would really bring some optimism in your relationship. You don't have to do it all the time, but once in every 3-4 times, so that it's like a reward for him. I don't really know what to tell you about the real problem. Sorry

Can you bring yourself to climax when your alone? If you can't reach it alone, maybe try to focus on yourself...alone. Try different things with yourself...if you know yourself it's better when your trying together.

NEVER FAKE IT!!!! if he ever found out that you did it would make him feel even worse!! ok well try a few different positions and some petting before you get down to the dirty, maybe try some games or something. NEVER FAKE AN ORG**M!!!!!

some people never can achieve orgasms. if you cant get one alone, maybe you cant get one(?) have you ever had one?