Is being one of the guys a good or bad thing?

Since I was young I've always felt more comfortable making friends with guys, I find it hard to establish good friendships with other girls because, well, honestly sometimes I think girls gossip way too much especially about each other while I find my friendships with guys easier because theres no jealousy or hidden agendas. But now that I'm in college its been difficult for me to have a relationship because most of the guys I know now only see me as a friend, a buddy. Is being one of the guys a good or bad thing? How or should I break out of this mold?

Im the same way. I had a few good girlfriends. But for some reason I get along with guys better too. Your right girls gossip. I find that guys are more layed back. There is nuthing wrong with hangin out with guys. For me its a good thing. My boyfriends buds love me.

Well, that's kind of like me. I have a lot of guy friends, but not many girl friends It just fine. But it's not completely healthy to have ALL guy friends. You should try to make a few girl friends.

randyo I didnt say I only had guy friends... I have a few really good girlfriends too.

Well then yeah, you're okay. Sorry I asumed you only had guy friends.