Should I consider the first guy?

ok I really need help because my friends decided to be worthless and have NO idea what I should do... ok theres this guy that I like and I've known since elementry school and I didnt see him for like two years but then we started to hang out again and he likes me a lot and so did I and I really was into him and we were about to get together..but he left to go to see his family in a different state and wenever he talks to me on the phone he only talks about sex and I don't know I really dont like that at all because I dont want to do that... well I went to the mall like a week ago and met this guy and right away there were sparks and I've hung out with him every day and we talk on the phone 24/7 not kidding and I don't know we both know weve got something and hes amazing!! but I don't know about the first guy!! o yea and the first guys 16 the 2nd guys 17 and im 15

Well the 1st guy sounds like hes going through that stage where everything is about sex! I reckon you should go for the second guy and tell him how you feel when you think the time is right!!

hmm I think go for the 2nd guy since you guys have such a spark... the first guy sounds like a loser that alll he wants is sex... The 2nd guy seems like he respects you more if he dont talk about sex... but if you really want the 1st guy I would maybe talk to him and tell him that I dont want to talk about nasty stuff like that. But really I think you should go for the 2nd guy.

lmao, WORTHLESS. ^^ above explains it all.

all guys go through the stage where sex is the only thing on their mind. usually when they are in high school. you have to be open with guys if you are in a relationship with them or want to be. if you feel uncomfortable with what the guy talks about, just let him know! being honest is better than feeling uncomfortable and making things akward for yourself. personally, I would move on from the first guy. if sex if all he is interested in, its not worth it for you. it sounds like things are going well with the second guy, just make sure you dont rush the relationship because it could get boing quickly and you might get sick of each other. always make sure you follow your heart. try to make your friends understand where you are coming from and what you are going through...true friends are always there for you. and dont worry...they will be.